Why did you choose to leave your hometown?

Yes, just to make a living, one month before my father died, he took me back to my hometown and asked my uncles to take me in.

However, they were all rejected.

Finally, my dad told me that he had been an asshole all his life, regardless of his family, so he ended up like this, and then gave me a train ticket, 50 yuan.

It is said that after life and death, money is made in the sky.

Life or death, I can only rely on myself, so I left my hometown. After many years, I never went back to my hometown except trying to find my father's ashes.

My life consists of four parts.

I've been mixed up and beaten. It has a history of five or six years, and it is blank. In those five or six years, no one knew where I was and what I was doing.

When it reappears, people are mature.

I walk straight and fast, like a gust of wind. I know what life is and what life is. I don't hate it, but I don't have the courage to forgive it Besides, I am used to living in different cities.

So if you ask me, why did you choose to leave your hometown?

My answer is simple, just to live!

I was born in the mountainous area of Liaodong, and we belong to the remaining veins of Changbai Mountain, with beautiful scenery and pleasant scenery. I am the youngest in my family, and I have been very smart since I was a child. My primary school has always been the first in my class. Since junior high school, I have been admitted to the commune middle school with the fourth place in the commune. My family and people who know about it all say that I must be a college student.

My parents love me, my brothers and sisters spoil me, and I have developed the problem of too much self-esteem. Just because the class teacher chose an excellent cadre and didn't nominate me as the monitor, he made enemies with the class teacher, so he played truant in class and his grades got worse and worse. He quarreled with the class teacher, who said you were disobedient. Go home. I said I would go home, and I regretted it the next day, but because of my personality, I didn't want to say anything, so I dropped out of school.

I got married after a few years in a daze. After marriage, all kinds of natural and man-made disasters are overwhelming, and life is not decent. 1994, my brother-in-law contacted me for a subcontracting job. At that time, rickshaws only paid eight yuan a day for food and shelter. I went out to find two people for a week, and others were afraid that I wouldn't be able to pay. When entering the construction site, my wife and I led them into the construction site, and the project manager arranged for us to go backstage, that is, the mixer to feed.

By the end of 1996, my life had changed, and I had saved 70,000 yuan or 80,000 yuan in my hand. My self-esteem is worthless again, because the project manager, the construction team leader and the budget officer can manage you, and even the team leader wants to make some money from you, so he gave up the business that many people wanted to do at that time.

There are many Chinese herbal medicines, wild vegetables and forest by-products in my hometown. At that time, the information was not smooth, and the distance of dozens of kilometers was profitable. It's not bad to do these businesses with friends. You can earn 20 thousand to 30 thousand yuan a year. You are well-fed and well-dressed, and others look at you with envy.

In 2000, you failed to invest in mushroom business to build a cold storage drying factory, and you still owed foreign debts. People look at you with new eyes. In the second year, you can't do business without funds. You work for others for a month 1500 yuan (mountain blasting), and by the end of the year, there is no money left, let alone foreign debt. The old man often said that people can move and trees can move to death, so I had the idea of leaving my hometown.

In the spring of 2002, my brother-in-law contacted me to do a business, and my sister earned more than 6000 yuan with the capital she gave me. I thought to myself, if I don't leave at this time, when will I wait? A family of three came to Shuozhou, Shanxi with simple luggage. It took three years to drive a tricycle, start a small business and pay off all the foreign debts. Life is getting better and better, and my sister and brother-in-law here also take care of me and don't want to go back to my hometown.

This is why and how I left my hometown. I am a stranger in this black land, so I must stay in this yellow land!

Why did you leave your hometown? Every vagrant has a story. I am a spoony person. I am not hurt by love. I can't stand gossip. I tasted the sea of gossip and leaves. He went to Tianjin to work in the Ninth Five-Year Plan and began to flee. I was disheartened and shut myself up. I accidentally hurt another girl. After three years in Tianjin, I was introduced to get married at home in 1998. I vowed to get along and leave my hometown again. In these years, I looked up at the sky of another country, bowed my head for a bowl of Chinese food, and walked barefoot on the road of another country. Strangers everywhere did not know how to like music, and I was the only one playing lonely songs. If I have a stable place in the future, who wants to leave and be a ronin?

People should have goals. When a person leaves his hometown, it is time for him to walk out of his comfort zone, and it is also time to hone himself. No friends, no relatives, no brothers and sisters, only strange faces.

My home is in the countryside. When I was a child, I longed for the outside world. There are many things I have never seen before. I want to go out and have a look. I never got a chance. It was not until after my senior high school entrance examination that my parents asked me to go back to my hometown to study, but I went to study in a city outside. Later, I didn't want me to regret it, so I agreed. After living in the city for three years, I have learned a lot, honed my will, learned to be silent, learned to control my temper and so on. There is also a university in this place. For myself, I want to go further. People's dreams should not stop there. Only outside, outside the comfort zone of home, can we feel all kinds of pain and grow up.

Outside, maybe you will feel lonely, maybe you will cry with a quilt covered all night, maybe you will be confused and lament the cruelty and reality of society. However, in order to live a better life, for parents, for yourself, and for yourself not to hesitate about the price of a commodity in the supermarket, you can throw it into the shopping cart without hesitation.

Go to the outside world to hone yourself. People only live a lifetime. Don't confuse yourself. It's enough to fall and get up again!

Why did you leave?

Leaving this familiar and unfamiliar city,

I wasn't born here,

But growing up here,

This is the first castle in my life.

Falling in love here,

Mature here,

Start a family here,

Fail here,

This heart is hurt,

Living a life of repetition and not seeing the light,

I choose to escape!

On the 30th of this month,

I'll drive my broken car,

With a guitar,

Go west and north.

I sang poems and played games all the way.

I broadcast the scenery along the way live,

I've been looking for commitment all the way,

Heal yourself.

Why do I want to flee my hometown,

Because,

I want to forget her,

Looking for a new life.

For my family, I have lived in the countryside since childhood, and my parents have been rural people for generations. I think we all know that Gansu has a high loess slope and a very backward economy. Growing up, I fantasized about the world outside the mountain every day. 16 years old, in the fifth grade of primary school, left his hometown alone and took the train to Urumqi with a dozen white buns on his back. After arriving at the finish line, I started looking for a job the night after I spent at the railway station, but every time I saw a job, I always said the same thing. Child workers dare not use it. I have been tossing for three days, but I haven't found a job. I have more than 50 yuan left on me. What should I do? I was so anxious that I wandered around the recruitment office the next day. Suddenly a Hui boss asked me if I was looking for a job. I quickly answered yes, yes, and then asked where I was. I said I was from Longnan, Gansu, and he said I was from Lanzhou, so I came to a ramen restaurant with a salary of 5 10 month. I wash dishes and mop the floor every day. I worked for two years and saved more than three thousand yuan. At that time, I heard that Shenzhen, Guangdong was the gold rush era. I didn't say I quit my job and got on the train to Shenzhen. After I arrived, I saw real estate acquisition, real estate trade and wholesale every day. At that time, I wanted to go to clothing wholesale, because it was simple and didn't need too high academic qualifications. I quickly found a wholesaler in the east gate and said that I would pay 3000 yuan. At that time, I didn't have any other name and filled in 3000 yuan for two years' salary. I got up at dawn the next day to get the goods and went to the mall. I didn't open the door until 9 o'clock. When I went in, I couldn't see the person who paid the money yesterday. Ask people nearby at noon, and I say I don't know, and I don't deny it. I realized that I had been cheated and worked hard for two years and one night, and tears of despair fell down at that time. Anyone who has been to Shenzhen knows that I will sit in the underground passage of the East Gate until dawn! After thinking all night, I was cheated, so I had to find a job and settle down first. Even in the clothing business, you can't do without clothes. I found a famous new white horse at that time, recruited a handyman and loaded clothes and cars every day. After more than a month, it happened to be the Dragon Boat Festival holiday, and I was still waiting for a boss to come to the store to pick up the goods. It's almost noon, but it's actually two big trucks. A boss with a Hunan accent got off his Mercedes and said you were the only one who touched that guy. I said, well, then two drivers and I pretended to finish loading after six o'clock in the afternoon, and the truck left first. The boss said that the boy saw that you were really doing something and went to the car for dinner. Nothing happened at that time, so I followed him to that place. The boss said his surname was Wen Hunan, so he began to inquire about me. I drank a little at that time and told all my experiences. Boss Wen nodded, took a sip of wine, and said to do it with me. Don't mention how happy you are to hear that. Resign decisively the next day, and send a text message to boss Wen to report on time after half a month. Half a month feels so slow. However, time soon arrived at the designated place, and there was nothing in a facade room except a few samples. At that time, Boss Wen said that as long as we are willing to work hard, it will become our own clothing wholesale mall in the near future. In this way, I followed boss Wen day and night to find resources. Slowly, three years later, how much money did I earn? I never asked boss Wen when he said he would prepare for the opening ceremony tomorrow. I was so excited that I stayed up all night. The next morning, I followed Boss Wen to an eight-story wholesale mall in Baoan North Road, Luohu District, Shenzhen. The name is Huahaida Clothing Wholesale. Finally, I saw hope. At that time, I appointed the general manager with a bonus of 3% and an annual salary. After a year or so, I also bought a house in the county and moved my parents out of the mountains. It can be said that fate never owes anyone who works hard. The key is whether you really worked hard. I can say that I left my hometown for a perfect home.

I left my hometown in the summer of 20 18. I was 25 years old and had no savings. I went to Shanghai to look for a job. What have I done? In order to see the outside world, go out for a walk so as not to regret it.

I'm not like you. My hometown is in Jiangsu. I didn't go to the big city because my hometown was not well developed. I really want to visit big cities and broaden my horizons.

What is the horizon? Working in my hometown, I don't have to worry about rent, eating and drinking, two sets of parents, one for me, and a wife and children, which can be regarded as a normal well-off life.

Young people are just a little impulsive, boss. I didn't know my weight until I fell. I don't have to worry about working at home. What else do I have in my life? Is this stable life what I want to live? I asked myself, and I answered categorically: no.

Come to Shanghai, submit your resume, interview and find a house. At first, I was very excited, running around with my luggage and shuttling back and forth in the big city, like a bird out of the cage, without him. It is not appropriate to interview several families. It doesn't matter. Go ahead. Youth is used to struggle and make a living.

When I arrived in the big city, I also saw all kinds of people, including good people and bad people, and also experienced being cheated. Three months later, I regretted it. Is it because I have experienced these bad things? Not exactly. How can people avoid being stabbed when they are wandering the Jianghu? I will think of the days when I left my hometown and went out to work. I still won't hate these bad things I experienced at the beginning, because I know this is the only way for you to grow up and mature. You are still young, and you think the world is beautiful. In your hometown, everyone loves you, and relatives and friends can talk about it. But if you go to a big city, everyone will have it, and no one will be nice to you.

When I was admitted to college, I insisted on going to Jiangsu, which is thousands of miles away from home.

I believe that there is always a reward for giving. In coastal provinces and economically developed areas like Jiangsu, people are advanced in thinking, rich in material technology and rich in life. You can learn a lot.

At least, you see that there are many beautiful things in the world. Some people can live a rich life by their own efforts. It's true.

Later, when I was traveling or on business in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, I saw taller buildings, bigger shopping malls, better cars and people working harder and harder. ...

When I return home, I feel how boring life is when I see all the simple and familiar things that are old, slow and narrow. Hometown is a place where you desperately want to leave when you are young and want to come back when you are old. I am still young, and I choose to leave.

Although I haven't settled in the first-tier wealthy cities now, my life is also very full and rich. Everything I see, hear and know is stored in the depths of my memory and has become the wealth of my life.

Chatting with colleagues, there is a * * * knowledge:

Friends who have struggled in other places, especially in developed areas, generally have obvious advantages in emotional intelligence and IQ. As the saying goes, "Seeing the sage Si Qi, not seeing the sage, but also introspection", travelers have wealth that others can't have all their lives.

Therefore, most people choose to leave their hometown after comparison and choose to go to developed and wealthy areas to pursue better development and life. People in these cities rarely go out, let alone work in poor areas in the mainland.

Everyone struggles in a good place, and when they come back, they will bring back the advanced experience, funds and management of the developed coastal areas, which will promote the economic development and prosperity of their hometown. After decades of reform and opening up, we have learned from Hongkong, Taiwan Province Province and foreign countries, and now our economic development has caught up with the international advanced level.

Therefore, the choice to leave home now is no longer a touch of shallow nostalgia in the old days, but a surging torrent in the tide of economic development. Everyone was involved in a beautiful wave that could not escape in the rapids.

I am a descendant of the salt industry and was born in a remote salt area in Dalian. When I was just sensible, I met the Cultural Revolution. I am always bullied by a group of children. I don't know why. I go to school with my brother, and those students who don't know their names throw stones at us in the ditch. I often come to school with red eyes. I don't want to worry my parents when I get home. Cover your head with a quilt and cry hard before going to bed at night. When my mother went to the countryside, I thought it would be good and I would never get hurt again. It's not as simple as I thought. We went to the countryside, and some salt families were sent there. We live in the mill of a nice family. It rains on cloudy days, and the house is ashamed and smelly. The production team also looks down on us, and the points are different from others, always the worst ... I stand slim and welcome the first sunshine of youth. A very good boy is very kind to me and has the feeling of your brother. Because his family strongly opposed being friendly with me, saying: You can't afford it, her mother is a broken goods. ...

I escaped from the place where I was born and raised with courage I never had before. I came to this strange city with the love of my life, married the second son of a high official, and it was difficult to find a wife in the city ... In those days, this was the only way I could go.

In retrospect, I often burst into tears. I have never been really loved by myself in my life. Sometimes, facing your husband, it's like a caterpillar crawling. ...

Personal real experience: I am a rural person in Bayi Shandong, and went home from the army to start a business in 2002. After more than ten years of ups and downs, I have also saved some savings, not much, almost reaching seven figures. But from the second half of last year to the first month of this year, my wife lost all her online gambling and online lottery, and I still owe tens of thousands. At that time, there was less than two thousand yuan in cash in my wallet. As a son, husband and father, what can I say? Almost sold the car and lived in the afterlife. It is not easy for people to do business by themselves all their lives. What else can I do? I have been working in Shenzhen for 55 days and have never gone out to work. That kind of sadness is really unbearable. Tired during the day and homesick at night. As long as you are tired and have a drink, you can hide in an empty corner and secretly cry, and then go back to the dormitory after crying. People, don't look down on those who work and don't discriminate against those who do business. It's not easy to live a lifetime. They are all working hard for their families, but they just choose different things. Happiness lies in contentment. Don't choose comfort when you are desperate. May the world be happy.