A friend wants to find a nanny for his mother.

My friend called me and asked me if I wanted to find a live-in nanny for her mother, because her mother was over eighty and had symptoms of cerebellar atrophy recently. She asked me if I knew any friends or relatives who were babysitters, preferably people with reliable personality and good personality.

I couldn't think of the right person at the moment, so I asked my friend why he didn't go to the housekeeping company. A friend said that acquaintances are more assured that the housekeeping company is a stranger, and she is worried that the person she is looking for is unreliable and her mother will suffer.

My friend's father died early, and my mother has been living alone. Now that I am old, my body begins to show various symptoms. She wanted to bring her mother to live with her, but she didn't agree. My friend still has a job, so I can only find a nanny first.

Friends' worries are not unreasonable. I once heard a client friend say that her grandmother is over 90 years old and it is inconvenient to move because she lives alone. The client hired a live-in nanny for grandma. Because grandma's pension is very high, the salary given to the nanny is also relatively generous. In order to satisfy the nanny, take good care of the elderly.

A client friend interviewed several candidates through the housekeeping company, and the last one looked good-natured and particularly talkative. The client's friend thinks that this person's strong speaking ability is an advantage and can make the old lady happy.

In the first few months, my grandmother got along well with the nanny, but later my grandmother complained that my aunt was impatient and her temper was not as good as before. Because I know grandma, grandma's shortcoming is that she loves to pick up things, so I didn't take it to heart.

This nanny is so considerate and cautious every time she meets her clients and their families. Both clients and their families like this nanny.

Later, grandma often said that she just couldn't stand it, saying that the nanny sometimes scolded her. Although the family knows that grandma has many things to do, she is old and melodramatic, but after all, she is her own family, and she is afraid that grandma will really be bullied by the nanny. As a result, a client friend secretly installed a monitor in grandma's house, only to find that what grandma said was true. Everyone was fooled by the nanny's kind appearance and later resigned.

The live-in nanny is at the client's house for 24 hours, so it is better to find 8 hours. After all, they are all adults and have families, and their own adults and children also need to be taken care of. Considering my friend's mood, I also want to help her, but I really can't remember the right person around me at the moment.

In fact, it takes fate to find a nanny. Customers want to find a good character, good character, rest assured that the nanny also wants to find a good employer who doesn't pick things up, and no one wants to make money.

There was a neighbor elder sister in the neighborhood where I used to live. After her husband died, she raised her son alone. Later, her son went to the army as a soldier, and she was at home. I got a job as a 24-hour live-in nanny, taking care of an old lady who is not too old.

This job was also introduced to her by a friend of hers. Gao Qian, my sister's lover, retired. She felt that this kind of person had a good quality and went there gladly.

Who knows that the old lady is a snob and a neat freak. She looks down on people at the bottom of society, and her words often show contempt. Coupled with her love of cleanliness, I always feel that my sister has not cleaned up the house in place.

In fact, the elder sister is a careful person with a good heart and a soft personality. After her husband died, she was afraid that she had a bad temper. In case she married a man with a bad temper, her son would follow her. Therefore, I would rather suffer alone and be tired, raise children alone and not remarry.

Later, the elder sister resigned. She said that she really couldn't stand the condescending attitude of the old lady and could understand her obsession with cleanliness. The old lady looked down on her and couldn't accept it.

After leaving this family, my sister went to a young family of three, where she got along well with this family.

According to the elder sister, the young couple treat her like their own family, and because the elder sister is older than them, they all respect her. Every time the elder sister gets off work, she will be asked to bring something home. Big sister also takes care of this family like her own children, and does her best in this family.

Therefore, looking for a nanny depends on fate. Both employers and nannies want to know more about each other, so that they can rest assured and get along less unnecessarily.

It suddenly occurred to me, why don't you call this elder sister tomorrow to see if she is still here, and if not, ask her if she would like to help a friend's house? Thinking of this, I opened the phone address book.