Why do some people also start from the bottom, but look down on the grassroots and the poor?

No matter who they are, they look down on those who have had the same situation as themselves when they get the status recognized by most people or the height recognized by the society. Even if such people succeed, it is often difficult to make great progress. Many times, success is based on grasping an opportunity, but to achieve very high achievements, you need a big mind, a big pattern and a big vision. This kind of person does not have it.

Such people often go to pot calling the kettle black. The pattern is too small. Many people really put their tails up after making some achievements, and look down on this and that. To tell the truth, the pattern determines the height of a person's life, and some people's success is just luck. Smart people from the same background understand that every step they take is laying a foundation for themselves, and people from the same background deserve respect. Just because they have no background, they should take everyone they meet seriously, so that one day when you need support, these people will support you.

Then there is another group of people who are complacent about a little achievement. When they bought a car, they began to laugh at people who didn't have a car. When I bought a house, I began to laugh at people who didn't have a house. When they immigrated, they looked down on their relatives in China. For their employees, being a boss is worse than any boss. Such a person can be said to be distorted inside. The more they lack, the more they need to show off now. Even if you get a little achievement, you should look great. Actually, it's pot calling the kettle black. It's ridiculous.

Many of these people are psychologically distorted because of extreme inferiority. Sometimes people's overconfidence mostly comes from excessive inferiority, and people's hearts are very strange. Children born in wealthy families tend to be more polite, more humble and more concerned about others. People who are born in poverty are often more withdrawn, indifferent and indifferent to other people's feelings.

Many people have suffered and been bullied since childhood. When they grow up, they really climb from the bottom and gain a certain social status and money. They are likely to bully employees and look down on the poor. This is a kind of release and also a kind of revenge. Because his childhood experience made him look down on his former self and felt that his background was too low, now he can get rid of the background he looked down on, so he will look down on people who used to be like himself even more.

Even if you succeed, you should cover up your inner inferiority with a hard shell. Many people like to use the word "dude" to describe rich children with bad conduct, but we must pay attention to one thing. It is the so-called "nouveau riche" children whose parents have not received a good education, but they have made a fortune by virtue of their boldness and wealth. The reason is also very simple. It is precisely because children inherit their parents' vision and conduct, and because of their inferiority complex, there will be extremely wrong ways to educate the next generation, which will lead to the emergence of "dude".

There is no reasonable way of education, plus excessive doting, and I don't want my child to suffer as much as when I was a child, which leads to the child's inability to establish a correct outlook on life. To put it bluntly, they got rid of the identity of the bottom, but their hearts were troubled by this bottom thinking all their lives. They have been building a hard shell, but they still can't stop this inner inferiority from infiltrating into their lives. This is a typical feature of this group of people.

So many people say that giants are giants, and nouveau riche can't become giants no matter how rich they are. What they are talking about is not the value of real estate, but the concept and details. Similarly, "poverty makes it difficult to be rich" is not just poverty in reality. Some nouveau riche with bad spirits can't cultivate excellent next generation.