I didn't know until I was old that the difference between people lies in children. Is this correct?

There is an old saying: Take care of your parents when you are young, and take care of your children when you are old. It means that when you were a child, the attitude of others towards you was decided by your parents. Your parents are highly respected, and your children are bound to be loved by others. When you are old, the attitude of others towards you is determined by your children. If children are young talents, their parents will be respected by others.

As for what the subject said, the difference between people is mainly in children, which is also reasonable. If every generation of children in the family is diligent and enterprising, then this family will surely become more and more prosperous.

I didn't know until I was old that the difference between people lies in children. Is this correct?

I agree with this statement. The difference between people lies in children. A person needs strong ability, but the failure of children's education is different from others. In today's society, some rich people are very successful themselves, but their children are not well educated and have never done anything serious except playing in luxury cars. Being the general manager of a football club was finally ruined. This is a failure in life. Self-reliance does not necessarily mean that your children have your abilities. 200 1, just came out to work. The boss of a private enterprise is a general manager in his 40 s and has a successful career. However, his children were not angry. They didn't study hard except playing games all day. I said, can't you do this? The boss said: I am very busy and have no time to take care of the children. As a result, the career is successful and the children have no time to educate. It is too late to wait for education. Most bosses are like this, lacking education for their children. I had the opportunity to start my own business when I was young. However, at that time, children needed adult education, and I was still working in a state-owned enterprise, taking my children to the senior high school entrance examination. Although I didn't make any money, my children were trained. This is also a personal comfort.

A son is the love of his father, a wife is the love of her husband, and a father is the love of his son. These are three concepts of life.

Alas, this topic is so heavy!

When I was a child, someone sent me a message. My father-in-law envied my mother: I really envy her for having a group of good children.

After listening to it, I don't care at all.

How time flies! Suddenly, I got married and had a daughter. As my daughter grew up, my heart became more and more worried.

The ancients said: predecessors are strong, and today's people are strong, not as strong as future generations. The predecessors made yesterday, now the present, and later generations made tomorrow and the day after tomorrow!

The ancients also said: children and grandchildren are not as good as me. What do you need money for? Children and grandchildren surpass me. What do you need money for?

When I reach the age of no doubt, I will no longer worry about my future, career and salary. I will stare at my daughter's growth all day, and I will stare at the year when I know my destiny.

Now I'm a showgirl. My daughter graduated from college, took a job, got married and had children, and had a house and a car. A stone finally fell to the ground.

In the second half of life, the difference must be related to children!

Children who are sensible, academically successful, have a successful career and have a harmonious and wealthy family will make their parents worry less.

Children suffer many setbacks, poor jobs, low wages and poor economy. Don't talk about your own hardships, but also let your parents correct their hearts every day and help them from time to time. People who are sensible are grateful, people who are not sensible still think it is success, and people who are confused are still finding fault with their parents.

When I am old, I feel depressed. When I see that my peers and peers get along well with their children, I feel inferior and ashamed.

There really is such a thing: two young people, A and B, are smart and capable, and B is simple and honest. In the first half of their lives, A took the lead and made a splash. But when they are old, A's children are greedy for pleasure, don't study hard, can't get into a proper university, and can't find a decent job. A was quite down and out in his later years.

As for B, although he can't catch up with A in all aspects, he teaches his children well. "The children of poor families take charge early", and the children live up to expectations. They study hard, get into famous universities, and go to central enterprises after graduation, with good wages and benefits. Second, one step at a time, filial piety, often shuttle freely between big cities and hometown, and life in his later years is very happy.

This story tells me that it is not enough to be angry and strong, but also to raise, teach and manage children well. I hope they are "shine on you and better than blue!"

A: That makes sense.

1, although this statement is a bit absolute, it does have some truth.

2. Our ancestors said, "A met her parents when she was a child; Middle-aged spouse; Look after the children when you are old. B wife attaches importance to her husband first; Mothers value their children. C ancestors value grandchildren! "

If you succeed again and your children are inferior, you will fail. (and vice versa)

I didn't know until I was old that the difference between people lies in children. I don't agree with this statement. Just like there is a saying in the description of marriage, only the feet know whether the shoes fit or not. People will compare themselves all their lives. Where is the ego? Yes, many people have no ego, because they live in the eyes of others, and others will always care about your feelings?

Reasonable parents never attach their old age to their children, but focus on their children's education before adulthood.

Nowadays, many parents seldom think about how to live a good life, that is to say, in their world outlook, they don't take themselves as the core, but think that children's endless efforts are the main line. If their children are admitted to college and have a future in society, they will feel particularly glorious on their faces. For those parents who work hard for their children but have no good results, children will always be a pain in their hearts. If we compare two kinds of parents with different endings, we will find a rule: reasonable parents will work hard on their children's education thousands of years ago, and strive to cultivate their children's personality, so that they have a sound personality and good moral sentiments.

The real understanding is that people have their own way of life and space when they are old, and they are not attached to their children and grandchildren.

I admire my parents very much. Their views on old age are different from those of many peers. They don't yearn for city life. When they are about to turn 70, they will return to the countryside without hesitation and start their pastoral life. No matter how much we advised, the old couple were unmoved and insisted on their independent life. Because they are in good health, they clearly tell their children and grandchildren that you live your life and we live our quiet life, so we should respect the practices of the elderly. Although we have also worried about what to do if the elderly need to be taken care of once they get sick? The old man said, we will arrange it ourselves and call you when we need you. Not all elderly parents can live their old age, just because they don't have a long-term plan and are not prepared for all material conditions for retirement.

Children's grades must be a sign of parents' success? Not necessarily. Some parents whose children have successful careers are miserable in their later years.

I have a good friend. He and his wife immigrated to the United States and left their parents at home in order to give their children a good education. As a friend said, their parents are proud of him because their children are very promising, but they are far from each other. The old man thinks that his grandson can only watch and talk through online video. After several years, my friends and family had to go back to China to visit relatives. To outsiders, my friends' parents are very successful, but only they know the desolation and loneliness in their later years. If we take the topic as an example, the difference in people's later years lies in their children. What's the difference? There may not be a specific measure, but we can only say that each has its own characteristics.

Conclusion: It is not easy for many elderly parents to live a wonderful life in their later years. Because no matter whether the children are around or not, they will follow the traditional concept and worry about their children all their lives. If there is no comparison, or to put it bluntly, there is no comparison, will the concept of life of the elderly change? The key is to look at people's mentality and what kind of lifestyle to pursue.

I always agree with this view, so for the sake of children, I look down on all things, people and things, don't pursue what I like, reduce unnecessary going out, and hope to spend more money, time and energy on my son! Although my son is now in a rebellious period, which makes me disappointed, I still don't regret my efforts. If I hadn't made these sacrifices, his performance in the rebellious period might not be as good as it is now, so I believe that a person's success depends on whether his children have achieved anything when they are old, or whether they can reassure their parents! So I always work hard towards my own goals and devote myself wholeheartedly to my son's education. Of course, my health is also very important, and the rest are just clouds!

This sentence is not entirely correct, but it is also an important aspect. If you have a capable, studious and independent life, you don't have to worry about your parents when you work. When you are in other provinces, you create a good environment for your parents to worry less and spend their old age with peace of mind. Otherwise, there will be endless troubles, and you will never be safe in your life. But other problems can't be ignored, and it will affect your life if you don't handle it well.

That makes sense. Folklore' in the first 30 years, I looked at my father and respected my son; In the last thirty years, I will look after my son and respect my father. If anyone opposes the above view, he is great. He must have the heart of "harboring cosmic opportunities, swallowing the sky and spitting the ground", such as Liu Bang, Emperor Gaozu. The family background of normal people is very important. There are living examples of the second generation. Need I say more? I have seen a child standing upside down. Write it down.

The old man was born in the countryside, and his speech has always been confined to rural circles. The son of the village chief, the villagers all looked up and boasted,' There is nothing wrong with this boy.' A few years later, when the village head abdicated, the villagers' son, who was not so good, didn't make much progress by being the village head with Lao Tzu, and went to the cellar ditch to find goods with bean bags. The village chief went down and his son was demoted. This is called: in the first 30 years, I took care of my father and respected my son. Later, I joined the army and became a platoon leader. After demobilization, he went to the village as the minister of armed forces. The old village head is alive and no longer left out by the villagers. The rank of the old village head for many years is so solemn, so kind, so warm-hearted, so pleasing. This is called: In the last 30 years, I will look after my son and respect my father.

At any time, people's eyes can't change, they all look up. Actresses in the entertainment circle like to recognize the godfather, but have you ever seen them called beggars' dad'? When people are old, the degree of respect depends largely on their children's social status in some cases. Do you have any objections? At least you admit it in your heart.