How about proposing in the first month?

The first month is not suitable for proposing to the woman's family.

It is often said that the first month of the lunar calendar is the time of "ghost marriage". In ancient times, few men and women got married in the first month. In ancient times, there was a saying that men and women got married in the first month, which was the pressure of tradition on their descendants, so few new people got married in the first month. In the old calendar, the first month of the lunar calendar is a "ghost wedding" time, because the first month of the underworld is the same as the dead, and all the things of the dead can come to the dead, so when you see the wedding in the wild,