Job Recruitment Website - Ranking of immigration countries - Immigrant love
Immigrant love
At the age of 20, I was faced with a choice: whether to immigrate to Singapore with my boyfriend who is 9 years older than me, then get married and have children, and live a dull life, squeezing out my last "imagination" in trivial things, or to jump out of this love that will hinder me and pursue self-realization first. Not without hesitation. But fortunately, I finally chose the latter at that time. ?
What is my life like now? I like my job very much, and the friends I know are excellent. We get together from time to time, eat and drink, and talk about ambitious or imaginative things. I live alone in a small duplex. In winter, I can sit on the bay window to bask in the sun and read all kinds of books. More and more, I feel that "the life I earned" is really comfortable, very comfortable.
To unswervingly choose what you like to do, no matter what people around you say about you. If your boyfriend really loves you, he will be willing to understand you and discuss with you, instead of expecting you to be the one who is only committed to the relationship between the two sides. You can have your own choice, and as your boyfriend, I will support you. You will face difficulties in the future. Help them through the difficulties together. Don't be afraid.
If he doesn't like you enough, he just needs a companion like you to solve the loneliness and loneliness of the adult world. He will disintegrate your pursuit with words and actions, and then influence your will with feelings. Think about it, if you immigrate with him, you won't give up all your things and rely on him in a strange place.
At this time, I want to advise you to be more rational and less emotional. Pay more attention to your future, think more about your future, and don't take love as the only destination. Because usually, the more you seek, the less you get. It is better to be yourself first and establish your own order. ?
In fact, if you don't try, you will never understand that you can be so resilient. I prefer to put "them" in good memories instead of today's tenderness disappearing in later years, and my once beautiful partner will become an insignificant past because of my weakness, instead of blindly clinging to boys' loyalty to feelings and making life a sugar-coated adventure. Then turn around and have a richer life of your own.
- Related articles
- There are several flood discharge places in Fuzhou.
- Immigrated to Britain during the epidemic.
- Do I need a visa to work in Cambodia?
- How to join coco tea shop? What is the profit of this brand?
- Can foreign hukou be admitted to the college entrance examination in local schools?
- Alessia Cara's main experience
- I lined up F 1 for my relatives in America. Can I change teams?
- What other scientists have returned from overseas with the feelings of serving the motherland?
- German immigration policy in 2020
- The national rural revitalization (poverty alleviation) system is selected once every few years.