My boyfriend is an illegal immigrant. What if my parents don't agree to our marriage?

I suggest sticking to it!

Many young couples have been lingering for a long time, and when they are ready to get a certificate to meet their parents, their parents disagree and break up. Is this really the only option? Is this correct?

Parents often disagree for the following three reasons:

(1) Being poor at home is not necessarily happy with money, and not necessarily unhappy without money. Health-oriented, smart and confused, with a companion and a nest, a little money and a friend, simple love, it really hurts, a little warmth and a lot of peace and happiness. Besides, the key is not to see whether his family has money, but whether he has the ability and desire to make money. If he has the ability and desire to earn money, his poverty now is temporary. In this regard, parents should take a long-term view, not just looking at the present, at least not killing them with a stick, so the rich and the poor are not looking after the house, but looking at people. So, you must choose this person.

(2) Bad reputation or personality problems. If the reputation problem is caused by the family's bad reputation and parents, then I don't think children should be blamed. This is unfair to him, because he is not wrong. Who can say that the murderer's son must be a bad person? If he has a bad reputation, it depends on whether he has changed now. After all, everyone has done something wrong, and it is impossible to remember others for a lifetime because of one thing. The national sentencing date has not yet been set. That's not true, so if people know their mistakes and change, they should be given a chance to turn over a new leaf. If he is really not so good, eating, drinking, gambling and cheating, then I totally agree with my parents that such a man can't marry, and this man must choose.

(3) It's too far, so it's inconvenient to go back to my parents' house, for fear of being bullied. In fact, if you think about it, where is it inconvenient to go with the current traffic? That is, going abroad, that is, two or three days away. Afraid of being wronged, marrying far is not necessarily wronged, and marrying near is not necessarily popular. Some people don't fish for three days when they are married in the same village, and some people may not know how to be filial to their parents when they are married! If you don't take care of your parents when they are in trouble, it's no use being intimate! No matter how far it is, we can do it with our heart! The key is to see what this person looks like. So, you must choose this person.

In fact, your parents' anger is temporary, and they will forgive you later, but your boyfriend has left. Maybe you will find a better one, but you will never find one exactly the same. If you lose your boyfriend just to be filial to your parents and not make them angry, I think it's cruel and unfair to him. Similarly, I think it doesn't matter without this wife, because you have no place in her heart. Of course, you can call her filial piety, but I think it is foolish filial piety and great sorrow!

I remember in a university, a professor did an experiment and asked a girl to arrange the most important people on the blackboard in order, including parents, brothers and sisters, friends, colleagues and neighbors. After that, she decided to delete the person she thought was the least important. Finally, she felt very embarrassed, leaving only her children, parents and husband. Finally, she cried and deleted the parents' names, followed by the children's names. So the professor asked her: Your parents gave you life, raised you and gave you selfless love. The child is your own son, and the husband is nothing. So the girl said: parents will leave her sooner or later, just a few years earlier and a few years later. When the child grows up, he will have his own home and leave himself, and the only person who will really accompany him for a lifetime is his husband. This shows that you must choose this person.

People say that marriage is a woman's second reincarnation. The first time you didn't have a choice, but the second time you did. As for how to choose, it's up to you. No one can help you, others' opinions are for reference only. After all, it is your own life.

If you are still worried about your parents' disagreement, calm down and ask yourself if he is worth your persistence. If so, please hold hands bravely to the end and make your own decisions in your life. Other people's suggestions can only be reference materials. Only you know best whether the shoes are suitable or not when you put them on your feet at last!