I wonder how long it will take to go abroad. I really don't want to go on. Tired? Can't get the result. Can I give up? Suddenly I just want to live a quiet life.

Hello, I'm glad to answer your question:

1: M: I feel tired when I am alive.

I don't think there is anything happy in the world, and there is no simple life. Students get up early and study hard, facing great competition and pressure; The same is true of people who go to work. In order to get on the bus early, they work very hard and tired every day, not to mention the pressure of family in society, so they are tired as long as they are alive;

Because we are tired, we know that we are still alive.

Without absolute happiness, a person is rich, and no amount of money can buy his health and happiness. Maybe their children can idle away, do nothing, do nothing, but just muddle along every day and become bored and empty after playing for a long time, which is also a very painful and desperate thing.

Therefore, life is both happy and painful. That's life, life. Pain and fatigue make us understand the bitterness and hardship of life, and make us look forward to a bright future. Life can't just be tired and painful, and pain will coexist with happiness.

3: Persist or give up?

Whether you choose to stick to the road of studying abroad or give up the road of studying abroad, an eternal thing is that you will be tired as long as you are alive, which means responsibility, commitment and competition. So:

1) First of all, you should learn to put your mind right. Some things can't be solved by giving up or persisting. Get a good attitude, life is really tired, suffocating, and sometimes desperate, but there are still so many people who can face life, pressure and the future with a smile, and they will be very tired, but the positive emotions inside stifle the negative emotions;

2) After you slowly adjust your mentality, you will face your future with an optimistic attitude and mood. At that time, the big difficulties may only be minor problems, and minor problems may not be problems at all. Now you are at the bottom of your life. You are wandering, confused and at a loss, so many negative emotions and moods will affect your decision.

3) The road to studying abroad is really hard. It is difficult to adapt to a strange country, a strange city, a strange face and a strange language, let alone learn the course well. Think carefully about what you have adhered to along the way, how much you gave up, how much you paid and how much you got for your dream of studying abroad? If you really tried and still didn't succeed, it means that you struggled and persisted; But if you don't work hard yourself and just complain lightly, it really shouldn't be. However, I believe you must have worked hard, because you will hesitate if you care, and you will be tired if you pay.

4) Once you give up, you should plan your future development after returning to China.

When you return to China, you will have family and friends. Everyone has the same language and cultural characteristics, which will gradually restore your life. If you really can't persist abroad, you can choose to return to China. Live for yourself, put aside the idea of fighting for your family and relatives, because the people you love most are also the people who love you most. Their greatest wish is not to see how much you have achieved, but to hope that you are happy, happy and healthy. If staying abroad makes you so tired and miserable all the time, people will become more negative and affect your health for a long time, then it is not worth it, and life is priceless;

5) Stick to it and the future may be better.

Generally, it is not easy for students who successfully immigrate through studying abroad. Their efforts and pressure are really beyond our imagination. Life is bitter before it is sweet. If this persistence makes you feel that there is hope and opportunity in the future, stick to it. After so long, maybe you will succeed after a while. One thing is certain, it will be very hard and tired. Sometimes don't ask too much of yourself, but feel happy and encouraged for your progress every time, so that you can have more confidence and passion to work hard and persist.

I believe you are already excellent. Whatever decision you make, once you make it, don't regret it. You should try to look forward, stop thinking about the past, put everything down and try to live the present and the future. I hope the above answers can help you, thank you!