Do people do stable jobs or pursue their dreams when they are 30 years old?

At the age of 30, it seems to be a watershed for both men and women. Standing at the age of 30, the society's cognition of 30-year-old people can basically be summarized as: married with academic qualifications and stable career.

In fact, in today's competitive society, a person's 30-year-old can be said to have just begun. A few years after graduation in my twenties, I basically spent in search and trial and error. After several years, I finally knew what I wanted, only to find that I was 30 years old. Then you told me: I am 30 years old and should find a stable job and settle down. Do you think I should listen to you?

In my opinion, 30 years old should not be an excuse for you to give up chasing your dreams.

The average life expectancy in China has reached 76 years. If you give up your dream at the age of 30, it probably means that you will spend the remaining 46 years in despair. There are many 30-year-old single young men and women around me. Although they are longing for love every day, they don't want to settle down, and their career success will make them full of vitality forever. I think it is not difficult to find a person with their strength and charm. In fact, when you enrich yourself and have it.

On the contrary, people who began to seek stability in their twenties, looking back now, are they really stable? The answer is not necessarily that they are mediocre in one position, but those 30-year-olds have a 50-year-old life.

Of course, it can't be said that all people who pursue stability are wrong, because everyone pursues a different lifestyle. Some people's dreams are like a stable and plain life, and I support them. What is said here is that people who give up their dreams for stability are not a watershed. I hope everyone can fight for their dreams once in their lifetime.

Douban/WeChat official account; Pampenny