My boyfriend is abroad and doesn't plan to come back. He repeatedly asked me to settle there. But I'm worried. Introduced at home, just met for a long time.

Disadvantages: Disadvantages of studying abroad: 1. Spending a lot, causing great economic pressure on families, especially some unhappy families, is like carrying a heavy economic mountain. 2, the language is not enough, the study pressure is great, and many embarrassing things will happen in life. 3. I am not used to life and diet, especially some small ones. It is inconvenient to drive to school, work and shopping. 5. Have a sense of loneliness and drift. 6, the climate is not used to it. Going abroad costs a lot of money, and everything starts from scratch. Because you are a foreigner, you can solve everything by yourself. You should be prepared to start your life from the bottom. Of course, this experience may be a kind of wealth, which can make you mature and learn a foreign language well. If you live in China, you don't need to live like that. Of course, you lost the opportunity to have those experiences. Personally, I think the advantage is that you know the foreign teaching system, educational concept, social system and so on. How big is the gap between China and other countries? Moreover, the courses and majors of the same level have been studied abroad. Disadvantages of going abroad: you can't be filial to your parents, which brings great pressure to your parents when you can't earn money to support yourself. In German universities, the elimination rate is 60%, so it is very risky to study abroad, and it is difficult to find a job (return rate) after graduation.

Living abroad means obtaining the right of abode in other countries. Different countries need different conditions. There are various ways to settle abroad, such as technology, investment and visiting relatives.

Skilled words take a long time and require higher requirements. Require skilled people to apply. Generally speaking, IELTS or TOEFL scores are required.

Investment mainly depends on his investment in specific projects or various gold products to achieve the goal of the whole family. For people with certain assets, the number of word factories is more than several million. Some countries also need certain management experience and practical entrepreneurs to invest in their countries.

It takes a long time to depend on the family, so it is necessary to have a person's immediate family member who is a permanent resident or citizen of the country of residence. The application cycle is very long, and there is generally a risk of rejection.

Studying abroad is actually a very important decision, which will affect your lifestyle, circle of friends, social class, thinking habits and so on.

I am an international student myself. I remember at the beginning, there were many things I was not used to. The first and most important, of course, is the language problem. China's high school level English is primary school level there, but in China, which pays attention to writing skills, you can't hear or speak it abroad. However, the language problem, after a period of time can be adapted. There is no doubt about it. There is only one condition: I want to stay in a place with many foreigners. There are many people in China in some foreign countries, and those places are generally poor and backward. I don't mean to denigrate us China people, just tell the truth. As long as you speak, listen, be confident and stick to the language, you can keep up with the ordinary level in about half a year.

The second problem is learning. If you go to the postgraduate entrance examination, then the problem is not big. If you graduate from junior high school, this period will be awkward. Because I usually want to enter a foreign university at this time, I have to face the formal English culture in a foreign country. Foreign senior high school English has reached the level of English literature, just as China studied classical Chinese and ancient poems. So it is difficult to catch up with English class. But don't worry about science. China's science is very solid and sharp, so there won't be any big problems.

The third is the problem of life. There are fewer foreigners than in China, and even fewer if they are in rich areas (I live in rich areas, hehe). It is normal that the streets are empty. If you can't stand being bored, think clearly. There are fewer people in the city. There are also problems such as diet and acclimatization, but these physiological problems are easy to overcome, as long as time.

There is also the question of funds. Studying abroad generally requires a lot of money, especially if you want to study hard. Take Harvard as an example. The annual tuition fee at Harvard is 50,000 US dollars, or about 300,000 RMB, which is not affordable for ordinary families. Ordinary universities are more expensive. However, there is a community college. This kind of college is cheap and private. Probably to popularize education. Anyway, those with poor grades will go, but the United States will not cross the wooden bridge like the Chinese college entrance examination. Even if you pass a bad university, you can transfer to a good university as long as you get good grades.

The last one is. China people will not be discriminated against wherever they go. The rich areas in the United States are all Chinese, whites and Indians, while coolies and discrimination are generally blacks and Mexicans. This is the general situation.

The following are advantages and disadvantages. Actually, I want to say that it depends on your efforts. Personally, as long as you persist, going abroad must be a good thing. Especially now, there are many so-called returnees in China. In fact, most universities rushed ducks when they came back. I went after graduating from junior high school, and now I am studying in a famous university. It's not convenient to disclose anything. So if you really go abroad, the most important thing is not only the diploma, but also a high level of English, an open way of thinking and systematic knowledge. These are the real meaning of studying abroad. A capable person can pinch a dog's tail flower even from a lump of cow dung.

As for the shortcomings:

1. Expenditure. I think this is something that has been considered. If there are no conditions, don't hit your face and pretend to be fat. But if you really learn something after coming back, then the future is bright.

2. The language problem, as I said before, is only a matter of time.

3. Life problems, as I said before, spit spit, you will get used to it.

4. Driving = = There are not many drivers in China, and there are not many bus people in the United States.

Loneliness is inevitable, but it is not necessarily a disadvantage. There is a word called vicissitudes.