Why didn't Tang Jing and He Han get together in "The First Half of My Life"?

In the 21st episode of "The First Half of My Life" aired, Tang Jing decided to go to Hong Kong for a one-year rotation, which means that she and the congratulations are basically done.

This pair of golden girls in the eyes of others are both executives in the consulting industry, have the same hobbies, and have been in a relationship together for 10 years. Why couldn't they be together in the end?

He Han confided in Chen Junsheng and the reason why he could not be with Tang Jing: If he and Tang Jing got married and had children, the woman would have to devote more time and energy to the family. He couldn't bear Tang Jing to give up her career and do this. He also said that Tang Jing is his most proud work.

Although it is a bit cruel, every word is heartbreaking.

It is undeniable that passion is needed to enter a marriage. Both He Han and Tang Jing were too rational and analyzed the pros and cons of worldly affairs too clearly. The two men's uncompromising vigor in competing for Kaman's projects made them more suited to being rivals than a couple.

What couples need is dedication, just like a team in the game. There is always someone who is the forward and someone who is the support.

Due to physiological structure and certain conventions, the woman must pay more in marriage. Can you say that being pregnant for ten months is not dedication? Isn’t it dedication to quit your job and become a full-time housewife? For Tang Jing, it was impossible to compromise unless she figured it out herself.

Timing is everything. Inconsistency between the two parties in the relationship is also one of the reasons for separation.

From the ultimatum given to Tang Jing in the congratulatory letter, "If you don't get married or break up," it can be seen that he wants to settle down and enter the next stage of his life. But Tang Jing was thinking about how to win Kaman's case, get a promotion and a salary increase to become a partner, and even took the initiative to apply for transfer to Hong Kong.

According to spoilers from many netizens, in the end, He Han and Luo Zijun came together. Although I despise this method of stealing the boyfriend of my best friend (it can be seen from Tang Jing taking Vivian away that she has not given up on He Han), but I have to admit that even if it is not Luo Zijun, He Han will be with Zhang Zijun in a short time , Wang Zijun got married. Because the man wants to settle down, and as he said himself, there are plenty of good wives who are smart, virtuous, and virtuous.

This reminds me of the special report "Women Find Matches for the Rich" by an American reporter Brook Larmer. In the article, the marriage headhunters were entrusted by the single rich and sent six teams to three cities. team to find him the ideal partner. The man's requirement for his partner is to be 22-26 years old, with a slim figure, fair skin, a slightly pointed chin, perfect teeth, double eyelids, long silky hair, and an appearance like Zhou Tao. The successful commission is as high as 200,000, which shows that as long as you have money, you really don’t have to worry about having no one.

As a career-oriented woman, Tang Jing obviously does not want to return to her family yet. She may never get married after reaching her expected goal in five or ten years.

In the novel, Tang Jing quickly fell in love with diamond kingpin Mo Jiaqian, lived together, immigrated to Australia, got married and had children. Just like Zijun's monologue, I spent the first half of my life getting married and having children, while Tang Jing spent her time working hard to start a business, and then switched sides in the second half of her life, each suited his own needs.

I don’t know if Tang Jing in the TV series version has such good luck. After all, women with high education and high income are not something ordinary people dare to marry. Although she laughed at herself and said that without a lot of love, it would be good to have a lot of money.

But she obviously cannot fall into marriage easily because of her emotional mysophobia, especially after experiencing the best congratulatory letter

If you were Tang Jing, how would you choose at this time? Marry and start a family with He Han, or continue to pursue a career?

It’s hard, right?