Why don't I want to participate in other people's lives?

I think not only myself, but also ordinary people feel the same way. Other people's world is other people's business. How can we get involved? Even if you have a lot of curiosity and thirst for knowledge, it is useless, because other people's lives are meaningless to us. The sky on Saturday is beautiful, because I don't have to go to work, but once I don't go to work, I will face the disorder of my life, so I will relax on a Friday night every week, then Saturday will be very leisurely, and then Sunday night will be very nervous, because I will face a brand-new week starting the next day for no reason.

Sometimes think about it, the regular rhythm of going to work is also very good, because children can be picked up and dropped off every day, children have a place to play, and adults have a venue. As soon as the work in the evening is over, we adults will pick up the children and go home. After the family reunion, we will cook and have dinner together.

In fact, the current education has a great constraint on parents, and many tasks are given to parents, so parents are involved by teachers, punching in, signing in, and completing composition competitions, which are all very chaotic. Sometimes our parents really don't have that much time and energy, so many parents can't help but flinch. Teachers should also be considerate of their parents' feelings. Some are families with two children. Parents have to face double pressures and it is very uncomfortable to be attacked in both directions.

I started planning to buy food this morning. I usually write a memo on my mobile phone before going out. What vegetables should I buy in the supermarket and what vegetables should I focus on? A few weeks ago, kohlrabi was still very favorable, only more than one yuan a catty. Today, the price began to increase, and it has become two yuan and three cents a catty. So I spent more than seven yuan to buy two kohlrabi, and I felt a little sad, because kohlrabi was only one yuan a catty when it was very cheap. Now the direct value has tripled, so I don't feel happy at all in such a city. At least we all feel that our income is low, while our consumption is high and our prices are high.

A few cities in the north should have a good sense of happiness, where people's living costs are extremely low and they only need a few dollars to buy food every day. Sometimes there are too many vegetables in summer. One yuan can buy a small pile of vegetables, because this is the producing area of vegetables and grain. However, coming to our coastal city is different. Although it is close to the seaside, seafood is very expensive. I don't know why. Maybe all the local seafood is exported, but the seafood here is shipped from other places, so it is more expensive. Therefore, in such a coastal city, there is no sense of happiness and belonging. This is an immigrant city and a tourist city.

Every summer, tourists from home and abroad come here to drink beer and eat seafood, which makes the city very uncomfortable. It was a twisted old man's wrinkled face, which was very ugly. At this time, the local residents here don't want to go out or join in the fun, because the streets and alleys outside are all foreign tourists, occupying almost all the shopping malls and tourist attractions, but the locals don't come out to play. They don't like to join in the fun Therefore, in the hot summer, you will see many people happily going to the seaside, swimming at the seaside, swimming and so on. And children are paradise, eating, drinking and playing. At the same time, the foreign consumption of foreign tourists has also brought crowded people and traffic congestion, so the place where I live here is unhappy, and my little feelings have been filled by foreign tourists.

Such a tourist city receives tourists almost half the time a year. Generally speaking, it starts in May and ends at the end of October. In the summer of June, people begin to play at the seaside, so June, July, August and September are almost the busiest time for swimming at the seaside. These months have made the locals almost miserable, because commuting is gambling, and going out to play on weekdays is also blocked. If local people want to take their families and children out to play, they should be mentally prepared, fight with foreign tourists, and show magnanimity and tolerance. As a tourist city, they can't leave a bad impression on others, so they have to be wronged.

However, in the small cities in the north, it is a mountain city. There are mountains and flowing water in the mountain city. Running water is a long mother river, which freezes in winter. Children play all kinds of games on the ice. Some people also run this winter castle, which is a variety of projects suitable for playing on the ice and can meet local and foreign people. Small cities in the north, there are not so many tourists, many people are not crowded, and there is not so much competition. Some people just come, sit down, have a cup of tea, chat, see the beautiful maple forest, see the Prince River, play in the mountain park, and then all kinds of fresh vegetables are sold everywhere. Buying some home-cooked food is a beautiful day, that is, a quiet day to let you grow old.

I like this quiet town. It has been blessed for many years. There are no disasters and all kinds of natural disasters. It's hot in summer and cold in winter. I use my strong body to meet the weather test all year round. I am an old man. Although I am a little older, I have a good attitude and am young. Although young people here go out to work one after another, they have their roots, their parents and the care of the elderly, so every winter and summer vacation.

It's really nice here. Not noisy, but lively, not impatient, not competitive, not anxious, not alert. The adjectives used in the most developed cities in the south have nothing to do with this. It's slow, quiet and soothing. The middle-aged and elderly people here are walking slowly and practicing Tai Ji Chuan. It is a place for the aged with good air, good materials and low cost of living. I once thought about my old age. I don't need many gorgeous clothes. I basically don't need to go shopping. I don't need to be in a big city, a modern, luxurious and fashionable metropolis. I just need a quiet, harmonious small city with basic services and a quiet life. I can feel happy here because of the low price.

Yes, sometimes a dozen reasons can't make you like a city, but one reason is enough to destroy the reason why you like it. I don't like coastal cities. The air is humid here, and I feel uncomfortable all over. Clothes, quilts and shoes are uncomfortable. Everyone smells moldy and feels hairy. Summer here is particularly difficult, because it is very hot and humid, not only the temperature is high, but also the moisture in the air is too high for us to stand, so we don't like coastal cities.

Another reason is that this place is a tourist place, and you can stay for a few days at will, but it is not good as a place to live for a lifetime. You can only stay for a few days and you can't live here for a long time. Those local residents don't know where to go and have no place to take refuge. They can only spend the rest of their lives here. However, people who have the opportunity to go out will understand that they don't need a lifetime of prosperity or a lifetime of fashion glory after seeing the outside world. In the end, it is better for people to return to peace, or to think about peace in their hearts. It is impossible to argue all their lives.

Now I'm very tired. It is really difficult to buy food and go home to cook and prepare food for my family this morning. Make breakfast for children every day, especially on weekdays. After a long day, I still have the urge to cook dinner at night, but it is difficult for me, because three meals a day is really a test for housewives. I feel very tired when I think about it, and I have no confidence. I won't do it again. I also envy all kinds of people who play tricks to make pasta, such as steamed buns, jiaozi rolls, steamed bread pies, oil cakes and all kinds of Chinese and Western pasta. I feel troublesome and tired when I think about it, because I can't make dough! I can never cook well and I can't make dough. I can't even make steamed bread well. I buy steamed bread myself. You see, my mother arranges all kinds of Chinese cakes at home, making Qifeng cakes and durian cakes, as well as all kinds of bean paste cakes, fruit pies, sliced bread and all kinds of western-style bread. I envy them.

Although there are all kinds of chefs and bakers to help me, I still can't do it well. I have a natural resistance to Chinese cakes such as noodles and rolls. Although I can make Qifeng cake, I haven't made it for a long time now because I am lazy and inactive. Although my cake is delicious and my children love Qifeng, I haven't made it for at least ten months. There are all kinds of baking tools and raw materials at home. I once loved baking as crazy as you and wanted to open a shop, so I bought a lot of double sets of tools to teach others, and also bought a lot of decorative stickers, as well as various sizes of packaging bags, cartons and so on.

That was all in the past. I used to pursue and discover myself, but now I have something I am good at, so drinking coffee, drinking tea, tasting tea and eating snacks should all be tied up with these petty bourgeoisie lives, but I am gradually starting my own way, that is, writing.

But I think it's better to be quiet and calm when people are old. In a small city in the north, the air is good, the four seasons are distinct, there are cheap vegetables, the cost of living is very low, and you have a sense of happiness and accomplishment. This town is suitable for providing for the aged, so I yearn for it. I know this city has its advantages. I am familiar with the people here, the streets and the local accent, the roads and the scenery here.

The reason can be: there are your parents here, the prices here are very low, things are very cheap, there are alpine parks where you can walk every day, and there is a long way to walk by the river.

Yes, if the cost is low, you will feel very rich, very rich, you can get what you like and want, and you can buy things that other cities spend a lot of money with very little money. This is one of the reasons why you love this city. One reason is enough.