There is a big job fair in Rizhao today and tomorrow! Address: Talent Exchange Center. But what happened to me?

I also went, graduated this year, and submitted several resumes.

Tell me to go for an interview tomorrow afternoon. I don't want to go, but I'd better go and see it. By the way, I'm going to the seaside just in time for the low tide tomorrow.

Is everything all right? I think I'm a little confused. Adjust well.

I think it's good to post it from my space. I hope I can give you some inspiration. Don't waste my two minutes.

Five years after graduation determines your life.

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Benben Benben Stone was published on February 26th, 20 10 at 23:2 1 Reading (II) Comments (1)

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As the "working emperor" Tang Jun said, "I think there are two kinds of people who should not compete with others for benefits and value returns. The first kind of people are those who have just entered the enterprise. Don't say if you can give me a little more salary in the first five years. The most important thing is what you can learn in the enterprise, whether it is conducive to development ... "

People always learn less from dullness and more from hardships; The flat lesson is shallow, but the hard lesson is deep. A person who has experienced suffering when he was young is an admirable person if he can see suffering correctly and rush out of the darkness. The most important thing is to practice internal strength first. Five years after graduation is the best time to practice internal skills. Only by practicing internal skills can we climb higher in the future.

Where is the way out? The way out is thinking!

In fact, no money, no experience, no social relations, these are not terrible. If you have no money, you can earn it through hard work; If you have no experience, you can summarize it through actual operation; Without experience, you can accumulate step by step; No social relations, you can knit bit by bit. However, no dream, no idea is the most terrible, which makes people feel scared and want to escape!

People should have the right direction. No matter how high-spirited you are, no matter how resourceful you are, no matter how much effort you make, if you don't have a clear direction, you will be at a loss, gradually lose your fighting spirit, forget your original dream, and you will take a detour or even never return, wasting your intelligence and missing your youth.

There is a wise saying in Homer's epic Odyssey: "Nothing is more unbearable than aimless wandering." The confusion of these five years after graduation will cause panic after 10 years, struggle after 20 years, and even mediocrity for life. If we can't get out of the confusion and fog as soon as possible in the five years after graduation, 10 After 20 years, we really have no face to face ourselves. Five years after graduation, we have many uncertainties and many possibilities.

In the five years after graduation, we have many things to be determined and many decisions.

Everyone will experience confusion and confusion, everyone has experienced fear and escape, but don't use confusion and confusion as an excuse to give up on yourself and be content with mediocrity, let alone become a bitter wine of self-pity and a memorial of setbacks. Life needs to be borne by yourself, and fate needs to be grasped by yourself. Five years after graduation, the sooner you find your direction and get out of confusion, the easier it is to succeed and create wonderful things on the road of life. Headless flies will hit the wall if they can't find their way; If a person cannot find a way out, he will be confused and afraid.

In life, when faced with difficulties, we often feel cornered. Don't be discouraged, stick to it, and believe that young life has no end, difficulties lie ahead, and hope lies around the corner. As long as we have the right ideas, we will certainly be able to take fewer detours and find a way out!

Successful people win not at the starting point, but at the turning point.

Many young people who have just graduated always expect to find their ideal jobs at once. However, many good jobs can't wait. You must choose an experienced job. The first job in the career journey is undoubtedly the starting point for entering a social university. Maybe you have found an unsatisfactory job, so start from here, settle yourself well and learn valuable nutrition from this job. A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. As long as you set out, there is hope of reaching the finish line.

The starting point can be the same, but if you choose a different inflection point, the end point will be very different!

In the past few years after graduation, there are many uncertain factors in our life, feelings and career, and the future is full of possibilities. At this time, we should learn to choose, know how to give up, give ourselves a clear position and stabilize ourselves. If you don't actively position yourself, you will be "stereotyped" by others and society!

It can be said that the behavior habits that a person develops in the five years after graduation will determine the height of his life. Whether we can succeed or not depends to some extent on our evaluation of ourselves, which is positioning. You are what you define yourself to be. Positioning can determine life, and positioning can change fate. The ugly duckling becomes a white swan, just a pair of wings; Cinderella turned into a beautiful princess, just a pair of water crystal shoes.

A person's life, three points are doomed, and seven points depend on hard work. If you dream, you will be "red", and if you love to fight, you will win. As long as you don't bind yourself in the inner cage, no one can bind you to fly high.

The reality is far from what they think. Therefore, when the sense of superiority gradually turns into a sense of loss or even frustration, when you firmly believe that you are a "gold" and doubt that you are a "sand", anger, confusion and inferiority begin to increase day by day.

In fact, you have to weigh yourself. Are you really gold? It's real gold. You can stand out only if you have unique skills. Bottom line: real gold depends on strength. Only by practicing your own skills first can you be qualified to consider Bole.

Every pearl is a grain of sand, but not every grain of sand can be turned into a pearl.

If you want to stand out, you must have the capital to stand out. Can't stand blows and setbacks, can't stand the cold and dull, and it's hard to achieve brilliance. If young people want to be reused and succeed, they must turn themselves from a grain of sand into a priceless pearl.

There are storms, sunrises, peaks and valleys in life.

Don't cover your eyes with clouds, but look at the scenery.

As long as the haze is swept away, the clear sky will shine. If you are not satisfied with your job, you should believe that you will not be at the bottom of your life all the time, and one day you will see the light. Tell yourself: I have not failed, but I have not succeeded for the time being! As long as you light a lamp of hope in your heart, you will be able to dispel the haze in the darkness and usher in the light.

Indeed, as far as qualifications are concerned, they are out-and-out novices in the workplace, with little business and poor connections, and they often run into a wall at work. Their pressure is not necessarily like a stone of fate, but like the sky before a rainstorm. It's dark and gray, and there is room, but every gap is filled with gray, and they can only wait for the clear sky after the heavy rain.

"Get up earlier than chickens, sleep later than dogs, do more than donkeys and eat worse than pigs." This is what many fresh graduates like to use to tease their living conditions. Although it is a bit exaggerated, many of them have always been shrouded in gray emotions-their hearts are always overcast. I remember a philosopher said, "Our pain is not caused by the problems themselves, but by our views on these problems." Looking at life from another angle is a breakthrough, a liberation, a transcendence, a high-level indifference and tranquility, so as to gain freedom and happiness.

A philosopher said, "Life is a series of choices. Everyone's future and destiny are completely in their own hands. As long as they work hard, they will succeed in the end. " Whether it is employment, career choice or entrepreneurship, as long as you work hard, you will succeed. Do you want to give all your life promises to others?

Five years after graduation is the golden age of changing fate. When can you decide your destiny best? If you are not sure, when will you wait? I am in charge of my life, and my destiny is not in my control.

Don't live in other people's mouths, don't live in other people's eyes, and take your destiny into your own hands.

Don't say that you have no background, you are the biggest background. American writer Jack Kerouac once said, "I am still young, and I am eager to get on the road." In the journey of life, we will always be young people, and every day should be full of longing. Everyone's potential is unlimited. The key is to discover their potential, correctly understand their talents, and find a stage where they can give full play to their potential, instead of being unhappy just because the stage is not suitable. We should treat our abilities objectively and fairly, choose calmly according to our actual situation and hobbies, and try our best to go to the places that need us most and suit us best.

In the field of human resource management, there is a very popular saying, that is, the theory of "riding a horse, pulling cattle, driving pigs and beating dogs": we will ride a swift horse with good character and strong ability; A man with good character but average ability is a cow, and we should praise him; "Pigs" with average personality and ability should be driven away. Those with poor character and strong ability are all "dogs", which should be cracked down.

I think, just a few years after graduation, you are equally ambitious and want to be a swift horse that is appreciated and galloped on the battlefield. Then, let it settle down Low is not equal to inferiority. Today's condescension is for tomorrow's work The value of life means that our existence is valuable to others. It's good to be used, but it's really sad that no one cares!

Being competent and doing a good job is the basic guarantee for survival in the workplace.

The prerequisite for anyone to do a job is that he is qualified for the job. Ability is the most basic standard for qualified employees, while willingness is an attitude. There are many people who are qualified for a position and have the basic ability to do this job well. However, whether you can do this job better depends on whether you have a down-to-earth attitude and whether you are studying hard.

Work hard on the basis of ability.

At work, you do more work than others, and you feel cheated; If you get less money than others, you feel cheated; If you often work overtime, you will feel cheated ... in fact, there is no need to care so much. Loss is not a disaster, not a failure, but a philosophy of life. Now eat a small loss and pave the way for success. Maybe at some point in the future, your great happiness will suddenly come.

Being able to bear hardships is a realm of being a man and a wisdom of dealing with life.

At work, it is not to work more or help others to work more or suffer losses. If the leader asks you to work overtime to catch up with the task, don't think that you have suffered a big loss. Instead, you should be grateful, because the leader only called you and didn't call anyone else, which shows that he trusts you and appreciates you. Loss is a contribution. The more you contribute, the more you will get in return. Willing to work overtime is such a loss.

If you are willing to give up, you will get it if you give up; People who learn to suffer losses at the right time are definitely not retarded, but great wisdom.

Leaving space for others means leaving space for yourself, being convenient for others means being convenient for yourself, and being kind to others means being kind to yourself.

A fool is blessed with stupidity, because a fool has no calculation. With such people, you can relax physically and mentally and get close to each other without too much vigilance. Stupidity often means persistence and loyalty, but it also means generosity and honesty, which makes people unconsciously stand on his side. Fools get more by accident than wise men try to get. In the past few years after graduation, there are only a few snowflakes floating in your sky. Are you satisfied? Success requires persistence and accumulation. Instead of focusing on collecting snowflakes, save some energy to snowball. Buffett said: "Life is like snowballing. The most important thing is to find wet snow and long slopes." Let yourself settle down, learn to find "very wet snow" and try to find "very long slope". Remember: scattered snowflakes will soon melt and disappear. Only snowballs are more real and can last for a long time.

In the past few years after graduation, if you can make more efforts than others, it means accumulating more capital and having more chances of success than others.

What is professionalism? Professionalization is the standardization, standardization and institutionalization of working conditions, that is, at the right time and place, saying the right things and doing the right things in the right way, so that knowledge, skills, concepts, thinking, attitudes and psychology are in line with professional norms and standards. "Every industry has many outstanding talents. They exist because they work harder, are smarter and are more mature than others. But, most importantly, they are more professional than the average person! So I can be your boss now. It is not enough for one person to specialize. Only professional people can fly in front of others, making it difficult for others to surpass! " Don't think that we are living a quiet life now. For those who have graduated for five years, they must recognize the five major challenges they will face.

First, support parents.

Second, get married and have children.

Third, promotion and salary increase.

Fourth, work pressure.

5. Quality of life.

Some people are excited to survive, their eyes always stay behind them, fishing for three days and drying their nets for two days, starting with the end.

Some people struggle for development, keep an eye on the front, make a little progress every day and persevere.

In these years after graduation, we should pursue, explore, have ideals and have goals. Life is like sailing against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat. A life that is content with the status quo is a ship that never moves forward and can no longer keep up with the pace of the times. We must seize every second to study, and understand that learning is not the patent of students. Smart people are most proud of: what have they done? What a wise man craves most is: What else do you want to do?

Small cleverness is tactics, and great wisdom is strategy; Small cleverness sees sesame seeds, and great wisdom sees watermelon.

In this world, there are both big people and small roles. Big people have a big lifestyle, and small people have the chic of small people. Everyone has his own way of life, and no one can force anyone. But cleverness can only have small achievements and small horizons, and great wisdom can have great achievements and great realm. Small enterprises look at the boss, medium enterprises look at the system, and large enterprises look at culture.

Both small companies and large enterprises have their own ways to survive. There is no difference between good and bad, but different stages will have different effects on a person.

Small companies definitely want to develop into large enterprises, which is a goal, and young people should also set goals for their careers. A few years after graduation, do you often get stage fright or feel weak? Be prepared for danger in times of peace is definitely not an alarmist! Take a nap at this moment, and you will dream; Study now and your dream will come true. In the fierce competition of life battlefield, those who nap are losers!

When everyone was young, it seemed that they were full of lofty sentiments and were not afraid of anything. However, with the growth of his age, all he thinks about every day are mundane things such as house, work and supporting his family, and he no longer has the courage to "explore the stars in the sky and fish for the moon in the sea" when he was young. Did we change our lives, or did life change us? Our thoughts are getting more and more complicated, because of more and more reluctance and more and more concerns, we are always wandering and always hesitating. One or two years after graduation, the burden of life will make us breathless, and setbacks and obstacles will block all directions. We are often forced to exert our potential in order to find a way out in deuex. But after two or three years, the burden on us began to lighten and our work began to go smoothly, so we relaxed and gradually forgot the potential dangers. Until one day, the crisis suddenly came, and we were defeated at a loss ... after graduation, we were still in a dangerous period. You must have a sense of being prepared for danger in times of peace and work hard to have a truly stable life!

Born in sorrow, died in happiness. If you want to surpass your present achievements, you should not limit yourself, but be brave enough to accept challenges. For the timid, the real danger is not to take risks!

Under the pressure of society, young people have become more and more adaptable, but they are unconsciously used to being pushed by the environment. They dare not take risks for fear of bringing lifelong regret to themselves, so they comfort themselves: "I am worthy of myself and my family because I have tried my best." In fact, only by constantly challenging and breaking through can people grow up gradually. Long-term adherence to the existing sense of security will eventually lose the instinct to jump like a frog in warm water.

After years of social life, you should understand that there are rich and poor, bright and ugly in this world, and what you see depends on whether you are positive or negative. When you are young, you should learn to work hard and treat life with a bright mind. Then, as long as you open your palm, you will find a splendid life inside.

Carve gratitude on a stone, deeply thank others for their help, and always remember that this is the proper realm of life; Writing hatred on the beach, forgetting that others have hurt you, learning to tolerate, and letting all resentment drift with the flow is also a realm of life.

Learn to pour water, in order to hold more water. From the day of graduation, learn to take every day as a new starting point, and every job starts from scratch. If you know how to treat "zeroing" as a normal life, as an excellent continuation, and as a thing to be done all the time, then in just a few years, you can complete the correct planning and comprehensive transcendence of your career.

On the short road of starting a business, if you want to get better, faster and more beneficial growth, you must face the world with zero thinking. Don't flaunt yourself with lofty ideals in college, and don't feel that you are particularly outstanding. Instead, put down your posture, lower your posture, let yourself settle down, adapt to the environment and accept challenges with a learning attitude. Only by letting go of your "figure" can you improve your social status, and a temporary condescension will eventually promote your future work.

When young people enter a new environment from campus or from an environment, they should be brave enough to let go of what they are familiar with, used to and like in the original environment, and then start from scratch. If you want to succeed in the workplace, you must first cultivate your adaptability. Changing from a natural person to a unit person is the basic condition for integration into the workplace. It is not terrible that a person has a low starting point, what is terrible is a low realm. The more self-care, the less development prospects; On the contrary, the more active he is, the faster he develops. Today, many successful people start their careers from scratch, resettle themselves, re-empty, return to zero, and then return to zero. It is precisely because of this that their lives are full of songs.

In the past few years after graduation, let the past return to zero, don't be the snail crawling with a heavy shell in the workplace, and fly as lightly as a bird in the sky. Please take a good taste of Jack Welch's words: "Correct your behavior, recognize yourself, and start from scratch, and you will embark on the smooth road to the workplace." Only by spitting out the old, can we get something new, be calm, have something to give and have something to give, fill the cup with water, put it down and surpass it.

Five manifestations of zero thinking: no self in mind, no money in eyes, no other in mind, no one in the DPRK, and endless learning.

Young people are inevitably a little proud, thinking that they are omnipotent and invincible. Actually, they are not. Newcomers entering the workplace are still "babies" and are in the growth stage from climbing to walking. In the past few years after graduation, we must gradually cultivate apprentice thinking, sponge thinking and empty cup thinking. People with this kind of thinking are always open-minded, ready to accept inspiration and anything that can inspire them, and always feel the call of the goddess of success.