How to play in college

By the way, my friends also told me that the university is a small society, and it is also very important to deal with interpersonal relationships in daily life, because they can give you some help after graduation.

I advise you not to do this. The first task is to study. There is loneliness behind every successful person, and only loneliness accompanies them. There are indeed many college students now. Why can't many people find jobs? This will ask them what they are doing in college. They can't play any beautiful women's houses and jobs without playing any games. This is not Korea. Only loneliness can succeed. Ok, I suggest you go to my Baidu space and read the article "I'm glad I'm alone in college".

Forget it, just take a look here, I hope it will help you.

I am glad that I am a "loner" in the university.

A place called Tanshan in Yunxian County, Shiyan City, Hubei Province is my hometown. There is an extreme shortage of water here. Every ladle of water is used by local people to wash their faces first, then wash dishes, and then feed them to pigs after dark. On holidays, relatives give gifts, and the most precious gift is two buckets of water. My brother and sister dropped out of middle school because of their poor family. They left the opportunity to me with the best grades. August 25th, 2003.

When I was admitted to the university, my father also went to Wuhan to work as a construction worker.

After entering the university, I try to keep the simplicity of a farmer's son. My father gave me 100 yuan, and I have to keep an account of every yuan: my only luxury is a pair of 120 yuan crocodile sports shoes that my uncle gave me before I left, and I only want to take them out and wear them in physical education class.

Because I concentrate on my studies, my relationship with my classmates is gradually alienated. At that time, I hated not studying hard on campus. I'll never forget the scene where my mother pushed a cart of radishes down the street to collect my tuition. I can't spend my youth like them. However, this lonely life is full of loneliness, sometimes I can't breathe.

On June 10, 2003, Da celebrated his birthday in the dormitory, and he asked all five people in our dormitory to attend. However, to my embarrassment, a table of people actually took out gifts for Dali before the dinner began! Lin He sent an MP3 player and Zhang Jian sent a repeater ... I was dumbfounded! Under the gaze of a table of people, I flushed with empty hands and put down my chopsticks. ...

In June 2003, I took part in an autumn outing organized by my classmates. After the autumn outing, I completely changed the image of "being a loner". Participate in the "sleeping party" in the dormitory from time to time; I did all the work of fetching water and taking out the garbage ... gradually, under my "kindness", Da Li and others accepted me. I began to follow them in and out of Internet cafes, cinemas and dance halls ... No one knows. For those expenses, I lied to my father that our school wanted us to buy 500 yuan uniforms collectively; Then I told my mother that I was ill. My mother sold seven laying hens at home overnight, and then tiptoed 20 miles to send me money. ...

I don't know if this life is right. However, watching my classmates who were far away from me surrounded me with admiring eyes, I felt guilty for a while, but more, I was happy.

In a blink of an eye, I am a sophomore. This year, I met a girl named Zhang Yu. At that time, Zhang Yu was surrounded by many suitors. I thought if I could catch up with this girl as my girlfriend, my waist would be straighter than anyone else.

In order to win the hearts of beautiful women, I go to my father more and more times every month, asking him for money under various excuses every time. Father trusts me very much. When he has no money, he borrows money from his colleagues. Every time I see him take money from his workmates, my new shoes hurt like a knife. But as soon as I left the construction site, I thought that Changyu was getting closer and closer to me, and I felt that everything was worth it. ...

In July 2004, Zhang Yu's birthday was coming, and she hinted that I wanted a set of Lancome cosmetics worth more than 2,000 yuan. No way, I had to crustily skin of head to find my father again and tell him that I was going to take the CET-4 exam and needed training. I threatened him that if he didn't pass the exam, he would go to college for four years for nothing! My father was frightened by my words and repeatedly assured me that he would give me 2500 yuan in a week.

On July 20, I went to my father's shed with trepidation. He looked rather pale and pulled out a stack of money from under his pillow for me. Just out of the shed, I heard a man shouting in the distance: "Sell blood five times a week, even if you don't want to die, you still want to be injured at work ..."

I am Zheng, and this is my father's blood money! I really want to kneel in front of my father and beg him to forgive me, but I dare not look back. I comfort myself that my father will suffer for a few more years, and it will be fine when I graduate. At that time, I will honor him well! ……

One day, Dali and I went to Hankou River Beach to play. Suddenly, we found a large group of people in front of a 12 floor building near Jianghan Road. They all looked up and the police car "honked" below. Turned out to be a migrant worker. Because the foreman was owed wages, he had to jump off the building to ask for wages. I suddenly found that the figure how so familiar? That man is his father! The policeman next to him sighed, "I heard that his child is in college." Urging to pay tuition! ..... "Wait for the contractor to settle the five-month salary of 6,000 yuan. He just came down with tears in his eyes ......

I'm an asshole! Damn it! I slept with my head covered in the dormitory all day, and I was afraid to think: If the contractor doesn't show up at last, will my father's feet cross out? ...... I ask myself again and again: Is the interpersonal relationship between college students really that important? If you are just a "mediocre person", will you still have so-called "friends"? I asked myself again: What if I am a "loner" of my parents? If you continue to be as ridiculous as yourself. Parents really only have a dead end!

That night, tears soaked my pillow. The next day, I found Zhang Yu and told her gently that I would spend more time studying and never meet again. Zhangyu looked at me puzzled and left without saying a word!

In order to lighten my father's burden, I began to cut back on expenses. At the same time, I also began to consider working to earn money. When they saw that I was determined to be a "lone ranger", they felt bored and treated me like air from now on!

I get up early every day and recite English on campus. That year, when a classmate shouted "50 points is just right, 60 points are long live, and 70 points are invalid", I exceeded 90 points in every subject in the final exam. I also passed Band 4 for the first time.

Blink of an eye, in September 2006, I was a senior. Many students began to prepare for the postgraduate entrance examination, but I decided to work. Starting from June 5438+ 10, I began to prepare for the CPA exam. In June165438+1October, China Bank conducted campus recruitment, and I was the only one who got straight A's and had excellent professional quality!

My classmates still reject me, unlike those who eat graduation banquets every day and cry like life and death, although there is only one solitary lamp accompanying me. But the brain is particularly practical and quiet.

At noon on July 14, 2007, it's time to finish school. I packed my bags silently. Prepare to leave quietly-because I am alone! Just then, my father came from the construction site. Seeing that everyone in the dormitory had arrived, he took out 100 yuan from his clothes and said, "Come on, dolls, I'll treat you to a barbecue!" " "I knew that these roommates who refused me on weekdays would not go. I was so embarrassed that I quickly pulled my father's sleeve and whispered to him, "Let's eat, they are all busy!" " I pulled my father out. Who knows, at this moment, I suddenly heard a voice behind me: "Jiang Wei, we are leaving, we should get together for a class ..." Looking at this scene, I was a little shocked.

That night, we drank a lot. Zhang Jian was drunk. He held me in his arms and burst into tears, crying and saying; "Jiang Wei, you are a man! Only you, a man! We were so confused ... "At this moment, I realized that in fact, my roommates' family circumstances were not good, and Zhang Jian's father had already passed away. His mother brought him up with great pains; Lin He's parents are just ordinary workers; And Dali, his father is just a shoemaker. ......

That night, I also let the repressed tears flow freely. Psychology is secretly glad. I pulled myself out of the vanity vortex of college students in time. Decisively became a "lone ranger" and didn't let yourself get lost too far!

Note: I read this article in Youth Digest and found it very good, so I changed it.

Although I am only a junior high school student now, I am going to high school soon. I hope my "naive" thinking can help you, but I also have several college students who have gone to college or graduated, but they have basically graduated and some have jobs.

Although my answer didn't meet your requirements and didn't tell you how to play, hehe, I still focused on my study.

If you really want to play, well, I do. I don't know what your hobby is. Isn't there a meeting in college? For example, Taekwondo, what martial arts have you studied? You can join according to your hobbies. There will be many like-minded friends, and then you will be finished.