A father in Hangzhou bothered to make a book cover, but his daughter refused Sina. Have you ever been rejected by your children?

/kloc-in September, 2000, in Hangzhou, Zhejiang, my father took pains to make a special book cover for his daughter. The cover of the book is full of elementary school raiders. My daughter doesn't like it and threw it away. Later, the girl asked her mother to change the cover of the book into a transparent cover like everyone else. ?

In fact, parents will expect their children to grow up. Children grow up around them. Sometimes you will find that children begin to show independence. Sometimes this kind of feeling will make parents feel a little lost, which will make parents more reluctant. But in fact, we are all getting bigger.

But after all, the relationship between children and their parents is very close when they are young, and then when children reach a certain age, they will have a sense of gap because they want to be independent one after another. However, after this period, parents will always feel that there is some kind of gap between themselves and their children, and it is normal for children to usher in their own adolescence and rebellious period.

In my opinion, there are many psychological factors behind children being abandoned by their parents, which may be economic, psychological and social dependence. Disliking is an external and internal attack. Especially for family members and children, when they say that their parents are not good enough, they also say that they are children whose parents are not good enough.

Discontent is a common manifestation that children want to get rid of dependence. At this time, meeting children's needs because they don't like it makes it more difficult for children to be independent and fall into incompetence and inferiority. So at this time, we should keep calm and see what the children don't like is actually aimed at ourselves. Then, if parents can grasp the child's self-aggression at this time, they can discuss the topic of independence and understand what help the child needs for independence.

When a child doesn't like you, it also means that you should let go and let him guard his spiritual world and do what he wants to do. What mom and dad need to do is to give a hand before making a mistake.