Has anyone been cheated? Don't ask me why blind date is just a game.

Has anyone been cheated? This is the first time we have met, so we must have enough new ideas to hold the meeting. The foundation of innovation is where everyone meets. The meeting place will not only affect my feelings during the whole blind date, but also endanger my situation and the final result. So, what should I pay attention to when choosing an address?

Put forward your own suggestions clearly and clearly.

Everyone has his favorite natural environment and favorite address. When discussing the address of the blind date, we must try our best to show the selectivity to the natural environment of meeting immediately. Even if there are too few regulations on the meeting address, or it is more free and easy, it is best to explain the natural environment that you hate or contradict in advance.

The benefits of doing so depend on trying to eliminate natural environments and addresses that are not suitable for you or will make you panic. Blind date in a relatively suitable natural environment can better maintain your situation and devote yourself to blind date, thus improving the quality of blind date.

Decision-making power is not for one person.

Blind date is a matter for two people, and where to go on blind date must be decided by two people themselves. Has anyone been cheated? On the basis of the previous article, even if their natural environment is different, they can choose a more suitable address. It is convenient for both sides to be in a more comfortable situation.

If the other person's mentality is more casual, or _ has shown too many suggestions, you can also do a course early. For example, contact the introducer to learn about the other person's preferences and temperament, as a reference standard. And tell each other in advance to understand each other's views, such as whether the recruitment interview room is appropriate and whether the natural environment is ok. That will not only pay more attention, but also give you many controllable standards.

Although people can understand each other according to what they say, visual effects usually distinguish you early. Naturally, visual effects include not only clothes, but also all small expressions and personal behaviors that the eyes can touch. Therefore, the first impression seems to be crucial.

Dress matching is a mirror.

As the saying goes, "Buddha wants a golden horse and a saddle." A person's dress can reflect the key points of temperament, hobbies and even habits. Although clothes and trousers can't talk, they fully reflect what kind of person you are.

Although there is no need for suits and high-heeled cheongsam skirts on the basis of blind date now, it can be regarded as an announced place after all, and it is best to ensure a distinctive design style. Although there are all down jackets in the cold winter of the new year, you can work hard with a coat.

For example, girls can use high boots instead of snow boots, plus a long skirt of moderate length, which can improve everyone's gas field.

This situation reflects the real situation.

Everyone is different, and everyone has a different temperament. In the whole process of blind date, it is a lesson that everyone must take to fully present their own advantages and advantages. Therefore, the mental outlook of the blind date is particularly important. Smart intuition, mellow energy and self-confidence are the prerequisites that the public likes.

Don't neglect the knowledge of etiquette.

Whether your blind date address is in a restaurant, coffee shop or other places, it is also important to know the etiquette when meeting. For example, don't condescend, of course, be humorous at the right time. This is not only a personal business card, but also a way to improve yourself quickly to catch up with the progress. Moreover, the real key knowledge of dating etiquette is concentration. Only by devoting ourselves to the present can we grasp each other's advantages and temperament and make a proper distinction between suitability and further development trends.

How to make blind date more and more interesting?

Basically, all people who participate in blind date are most worried and least expected to see it. When a romantic meeting turns into an uncertain conversation, no one is easy to be comfortable. So _, in order to better prevent becoming a topic terminator, how to chat?

0 1 Don't talk about ex-boyfriends

Talking about ex-boyfriends in the case of blind date is the most taboo and quickest way to chat. Imagine, if you don't spit on your ex-boyfriend in front of him, what can he say except "yes, yes, I get it"?

Moreover, if you talk about your ex-boyfriend, no matter what level you talk about (although it is unlikely to be an advantage), it will make the other person feel that you have completely learned to let go of your ex-boyfriend. In this way, even if you think the other person is excellent, the other person will secretly consider whether it is suitable for you.

Don't talk about work

Maybe you are the management of a company, maybe you are the CEO of a start-up company, maybe you have dozens of business service elites who regard you as a super idol, but these are all true identities in the company environment. Blind date is not a company staff meeting, nor an elite lecture on business services. The key to blind date lies in the temperament of two people and the touch of love concept. No one finds a job by blind date.

In particular, these successful quotations can not stop beating around the bush, except to speed up the process of going home to pay after dating, and others have practical effects.

Talk more about hobbies in daily life.

What is the purpose of blind date? It must be to find the right person to spend the rest of my life with. The final pursuit of perfection for those two people together is the inconvenience of living together in daily life? At this time, it is most effective to talk about your preferences and yearning for life. First, it can make both people have a deeper grasp; Secondly, talk more about your hobbies in daily life, and you can also find out how interested the other person is in you and what kind of mentality he has for your temperament and hobbies. These two aspects can determine the final blind date _ fruit discrimination.

Remember to maintain a sense of hierarchy.

In addition to what you should say and what you shouldn't say, remember to "shut up" yourself at an appropriate time. Learning to maintain a moderate sense of hierarchy and not fully expose yourself is also one of the secrets of blind date. Not only can you inspire the other person to master your impulse, but you can also leave a topic for future meetings. Only by learning to persist and not be embarrassed can we enjoy the whole process of blind date.

These trivial things that you need to pay attention to.

Some people say, "Attitude determines success or failure." The same is true of blind date. Sometimes, no matter how well dressed, well behaved and humorous you are, you will be completely defeated by one or two small key points. Here are two little things you should remember.

Learn to control time.

Try to control the blind date time within 1~ 2 hours.

There are two reasons for this: first, the longer the blind date, the greater the probability of a vicious incident. In order to better prevent such embarrassment, controlling time is the most direct method.

Secondly, it is also a way to learn how to complete blind date with high enthusiasm. Just as movies like to end immediately after the climax, when two people are in high spirits, finding a suitable opportunity to end this meeting will leave a deeper impression on the other party. Compared with the dull ending, it is easier to cause the next meeting, and it is easier to take the initiative in your own hands.

Honesty comes first.

In the case of blind date, please be honest. Blind date itself is a whole process of frank meeting, and each other makes a final decision on whether to communicate based on each other's temperament, outlook and main performance. That _, if you hide too little, even if two people finally come together regardless of difficulties, you can gradually find that the hidden items eventually become bombs.