Why should parents buy a house for their daughter when they have a girl?

My daughter is approaching marriageable age. Aunt Tang took out her life savings and paid down a house for her daughter. As a single mother, Aunt Tang only has this ability, and the rest is left to her daughter to work hard.

Aunt Tang's daughter was deeply moved. She knows mom's hard work and good intentions!

When my daughter was 8 years old, Aunt Tang's ex-husband cheated, and her former mother-in-law took care of her calf, which made her chicken fly and dogs jump. Aunt Tang can't stand it. She chose to divorce and go out clean, but her mother-in-law wouldn't even let her take a needle.

Aunt Tang remembers it all her life. When she left, her former mother-in-law said,? Get out of here, I still don't believe my son can't get a wife! ?

Aunt Tang has two brothers. Aunt Tang's parents have been working hard for their brothers to get married and have children all their lives. They didn't spare any money to help Aunt Tang, but told her. You can't be too strong to be a woman. ?

At that time, Aunt Tang clearly and thoroughly understood for the first time how difficult the situation can be as a woman.

In this way, Aunt Tang took her daughter, gritted her teeth and began to drift from place to place for the rest of her life under siege. She worked hard and scrimped, and it was not until the ninth year after the divorce that she got a small house belonging to her mother and daughter.

As soon as life improved, my daughter was admitted to a foreign university. It's not easy to know my mother. I never eat and dress with my classmates. In order to save money, she doesn't go home every summer vacation, staying at school as a tutor and working part-time to earn living expenses. Every winter vacation, I also buy the cheapest train ticket.

My daughter's understanding and strength are very similar to her own. Aunt Tang sees it in her eyes and hurts in her heart.

She deeply feels that a woman's life, if she doesn't really love her, the people who support her at the critical moment of life are a hundred times more difficult than men. No matter what men do, at least one tile in their ancestors belongs to them.

Therefore, since her daughter went to college, she began to ponder about buying a house for her daughter. Her marriage is unhappy, and she hopes that her daughter will live better than her, even a little, even if she doesn't have to live in a fixed place after divorce, she will be happy.

After making up her mind, Aunt Tang retired early and started to do early business while she was in good health.

After her daughter graduated, Aunt Tang repeatedly told her daughter not to spend in advance. If she wants to enjoy life, she must first solve the fundamental problem. My daughter agrees very much. Although in the best years, she dressed simply, but the thought that she was working hard for her house made her feel at ease.

Cooking breakfast is a good income, but it is very hard. Get up at 4 o'clock every morning to prepare materials, but Aunt Tang has an expectation, rain or shine.

On one occasion, Aunt Tang's colleague went to her booth to buy breakfast. She asked:

Why do you have to buy a house for your daughter? If the girl finds her husband's house, isn't the house there? If I had a daughter, I wouldn't buy her a house. She has the ability to find a good husband's family, but she doesn't, so she deserves to suffer. ?

Aunt Tang smiled contemptuously and replied:

The husband's house will always belong to the husband's family. If your husband lets you go, you have to go. If you have your own house, your husband's family will make you cry, so you can leave him alone. It is your business that you are willing to let your daughter suffer. Daughter, as long as I am alive, I can eat anything, not my husband's! ?

Aunt Tang's words left her colleagues speechless.

So, in the fifth year of her daughter's graduation, Aunt Tang realized her dream of buying a house for her daughter. Although the house is not very big, it has a good location and apartment type. My daughter's savings are used for decoration, and everything is just right.

Since then, Aunt Tang has ended her early career and started her formal retirement of shopping in the morning and dancing in the square dance at night. She was relieved to think that her daughter would have a way out even if she met bad people in the future? As long as a woman has her own house, she is not afraid of the sky falling.

And the daughter, since having her own house, the whole person has become confident and calm, works harder, chooses a spouse more calmly and has more standards. Everything is getting better and better?

In my opinion, a mother like Aunt Tang is one in a million.

How many mothers have never loved their daughters at all, or even if they have, they have only weak love. For example, they feel sorry for her suffering from marriage and childbirth, but they can't give any firm and strong support.

First, parents who truly love their daughters will definitely understand the weak position of women in marriage and will definitely buy a house for their daughters.

Strangely, parents seem to be poor and difficult. As long as their son wants a house, they can pay for selling iron.

But once you get to your daughter, it's the opposite. You can't get the money. Have the ability to earn money to buy a house, find a good husband's family, manage a good marriage, and don't let the husband's family drive you out.

People all over the world say that, of course, parents buy houses for their sons, and men can't get a wife without a house. However, it never occurred to me that the marital status faced by most daughters is that the husband's family is unreliable and can't go home. The so-called marriage is just living in the husband's family with a marriage certificate. Once divorced, right? Get out? After he got out of prison, he had no choice but to sleep on the street.

The parents I have met who really love their daughters all buy houses for their daughters for no reason. If there is a reason, it is an excuse.

Second, capable women, in the best years, should not be eager to enjoy, and should not rely on marriage and men too early. It's all external things. The real foundation is your own house, ability, qualifications and experience.

There is no shortage of beautiful faces in this world, but there are not many beautiful heads.

Among the thousands of female readers I have contacted, several are very clear about the room before marriage.

Most girls, in the best years, can't settle down and work hard, plan their own careers, and work so-so. They just want to dress up beautifully, carry flashy luxury goods, attract men, and are eager to find the final destination in marriage.

Maybe in ten years or more, some of them will wake up like a dream.

As a daughter, it is unrealistic to expect parents to take the initiative to buy a house, and it is also very rare for parents who know how to love their daughters. Then, a girl with education and strength, I hope you can have some common sense about marriage, wake up and make plans early.

Of course, more girls are at the bottom, and it is almost impossible to buy a house by themselves. It's hard not to be squeezed by your parents, brothers, family background, and marriage.

Third, when you meet good parents, you should cherish them and not squander them.

Most of the people who can take the initiative to buy a house for their daughters are only-child families.

The only daughter should treat herself as a son, have a sense of responsibility to her parents and work hard. She should not only know how to squander her parents' love and assets, but also support her husband's family wholeheartedly when she gets married.

Many silly girls don't understand the sufferings of the world, they are sinister in their scheming, and they are fond of their brains. Once married, they will give priority to their in-laws and let their parents sacrifice too much. However, many in-laws with ulterior motives, as soon as their daughter-in-law's parents die, will change their faces or simply get old.