Make friends with money (speech)

Welcome your arrival.

When I published this topic a few days ago, many friends told me that I wanted to be friends with money, but money didn't make friends with me.

This is indeed a problem that many people encounter.

In addition, there is another situation. Some people may see that his income is good and think that he may not have the trouble of money. Look at this picture, everyone.

Interesting, isn't it? Therefore, each of us who lives on the earth basically has a lesson: how to handle the relationship between ourselves and money?

For me, money is energy. I advocate that we make friends with money.

Since you want to be friends with money, I'll discuss it with you first. What kind of friends do we like, or who would you like to be friends with?

Of course, there are many subdivisions of friendship, and only the ideal friendship is discussed here. The ideal friendship is essentially a friendship of mutual appreciation, mutual respect and mutual achievement.

If you have a friend, he stipulates the time and place of each meeting, and even has detailed requirements on what clothes you wear. I don't think you will become friends soon. You won't be friends with people who don't like you or are afraid of you. In fact, many of us have a lot of prejudice against money as a friend, and many people don't even see money as a friend.

If you don't believe me, you can close your eyes and imagine what money looks like. Everyone has a different imagination. You can feel what money is like in your imagination. Is it beautiful, clean, light or ugly, dirty and heavy? I have a friend who can't imagine what it's like to give money.

In this imaginary image of money, there is a lot of information about your relationship with money.

You can also observe some of your habits about money.

Restrictive belief 1: Money is dirty.

I used to have a habit of washing my hands after taking money, and I can't touch money without touching it after taking a shower. Why is this happening? Because I was educated as a child, many people have been exposed to money. There are many bacteria and viruses on it, and that picture is deeply imprinted in my mind. I believe many people have been educated in this way. So money, in my subconscious, used to be dirty and excluded.

In fact, viruses and bacteria are everywhere. The Heart Sutra says "not dirty or dirty". What is really clean and what is really dirty? There are bacteria in the water, but our hands are clean after washing. How many bacteria do we have? If we observe them under a microscope, we will find that the microbial kingdom on us is surprisingly prosperous.

There is a saying that money is treated like dirt. But in fact, if I know more about money and dirt, we will find that this is a misunderstood sentence. In the interpretation of some dreams, feces are often regarded as a symbol of money. After discussing with teachers and classmates, I found that the reason is that manure is the first creation after people came to the world, and it is a good fertilizer for the earth and crops. Moreover, for a newborn child, he will not think that feces are smelly or dirty, nor will he think that feces are dirty and smelly until he is educated by adults.

Well, I must admit that this analogy really challenges my limits.

But from another angle, when feces are so important to the earth and can bring vitality to the earth, I suddenly feel that my dirty feeling about money is much more neutral. For this world, it is neither clean nor filthy. It's just some standards that we set artificially to evaluate them. If you really want to weigh it, it is a truth not to be dirty, not to increase or decrease, not to live or die.

Restrictive belief 2: money is a thing that can be controlled.

This belief is a contempt for money to some extent, and it also makes our relationship with money lose its vitality.

This may be related to the fact that when we were young, we were taught to hold paper money and say that this is money. This kind of education makes us feel that money is an object. If it is an object, it can be controlled. We can manage our money. This idea is common, but it makes all relationships materialized.

This materialization will lead to two levels of differentiation, one likes to measure value with money, and the other hates to measure value with money. The former may be easily controlled by money and lose more fun; The latter may have a negative label on money and it is easy to lose the opportunity to study with money.

Maybe coins were a means of exchange in the early days. Originally coins were shells, but today we don't use shells as money. For another example, we will not use wallets that have been retired from history as cash. For example, when inflation was the worst in the Republic of China, paper money was directly used as paper. With the popularity of electronic money today, we are carrying less and less cash, and a mobile phone can complete various payment transactions.

Therefore, the essence of money will never be a thing. If you treat money as an object, just as you treat your friends as an object, money will ignore you. You can't ask money to come to us the way we want, just as you can't ask your friends to come to you by any means of transportation. You have no right to ask your friends how to dress and do the same thing.

Taking money as a friend is a kind of respect for money and self. Friends treat you the way you treat your friends. Mutual respect and equal friendship can always last longer. And if you look down on money, or look up to it, it is difficult for money to maintain a long-term friendly relationship with you. We don't have to be with friends all the time. The best friendship is enough to support each other when necessary.

Restrictive belief 3: the quantitative attribute of money is superior to the liquidity attribute.

How much do you want? Many people will think that the more the better. But in fact, the sense of wealth brought by money is not necessarily related to the amount of money. For example, some friends here came in with coupons, and then I gave some friends red envelopes, which were very small, just twice the course fees they paid. However, I can still feel their joy when they see their money and come back at twice the speed. So be kind to the value and joy brought by every penny, and friends of money will be more willing to get along with us.

Because money is a clever and naughty friend. Sometimes, like a narrow-minded girl, she likes to test you with makeup. It will think that if you treat a penny well, it will treat all the money well.

For example, the famous legend that Li Ka-shing paid 65,438+00 Hong Kong dollars for workers' expenses is worth our consideration.

Even if the cardinal number of a thing is very small, once it is multiplied by geometric series, the final result will be shocking.

The basis of multiplication is to create liquidity first.

Therefore, in some economic activities, it is more important to give priority to its liquidity than its absolute value.

I once met a friend of mine. She told me that as long as she has more than 50 thousand yuan in her hand, she can't sleep and think about how to use it. So when I met her, she had many properties in Beijing, Shanghai and Shenzhen.

There may be many restrictive beliefs, and we can all refer to this table.

For example, many people find it difficult to earn money. But I want you to think about it. What about the glory of the king, who made the most money last year? What about those trillions of Van Gogh paintings? We must admit that, in essence, we don't know much about money as friends. Although I don't advocate playing games, I want to say that money sometimes comes to us in a way beyond our cognition.

If we want to communicate with a person more smoothly, communication may be more helpful if we know more about this person.

Let's look at the essence of money.

What we care about is never money, but the value and experience it brings you. So, if you are given a lot of money, but you can't use it, do you think money is still meaningful?

Coins are born for exchange, and the purpose of exchange is to make things flow. So the essence of money is liquidity.

If money is like water, we can't let it flow forever. Water also nourishes the life of all things. So, if you want to hold the money in your hand, it may be difficult, but there is still little water in your hand. Many of us live like this. Smart people will find tools, build their own pools and water tanks, and use tools to get water. Smarter people will build a pipeline system to let the funds flow to their own pool of funds. But I think the most reliable thing is that I can dig wells or find water at any time. My biggest breakthrough in recent years is that I no longer focus on taking water by hand, but constantly cultivate my ability to dig wells and find water while storing water.

Generally speaking, investing in yourself is the best investment. But even so, throughout the whole nature, water is always flowing, whether it is lake, river or well water. In other words, the water we drink and use is circular. Therefore, to be friends with money, we must realize that money is always flowing, and it is enjoyed by all things in the world. Water nourishes everything in the flow, bringing about the flow and balance of energy. So another breakthrough in the relationship between money in the past two years is that I realized from my heart that the essence of money is mobility, and we can never possess money, just as we can never possess anyone. We should allow this mobility, but we also know how to use it to realize our life experiences and dreams. This is the meaning of money.

So you go to see those people who have relatively free money relations. They are all people who take the initiative to help the money flow. It is not that the richer people borrow more money from banks. Especially in this era, the more money is released, the more the bank depreciates, because it violates the mobile nature of money to some extent.

When you start to allow money to flow, you will find that you start to know money as a friend.

This is a small test for me to offer this fee-based course. If a person is unwilling to shed so little money, it is difficult to understand what I want to express today. Moreover, when money flows, it is very powerful. At first, I just gave some friends coupons and small but meaningful red envelopes, so that participants could directly experience the flow effect of money. And I set up 80% promotion and sharing in this course. An hour later, the whole development was beyond my imagination, and many people took the initiative to share my courses. I know that promotion fees and red envelopes are a small reason, but because this kind of money has been given the meaning of mobile experience from the beginning, it is the most important reason, and they have realized the happiness of making money flow. In other words, besides what you hear from me now, participating in the whole course experience is part of the course. I follow the empirical principle of currency liquidity in every action of course charging and promotion. The amount is small, but it is completely different to be given meaning.

This is also the game that I know money likes.

Tell me, if I spend money casually, the money will flow.

I mean, absolutely not. If we were money, we would be more willing to play with those friends. They must be people who cherish your value more than people who abuse your value. For example, some people's friends are lawyers, so they go to their friends for free consultation regardless of their size. Do you think your lawyer friends will play with you for a long time?

So is money. Personally, I feel that money prefers what you really like, and you are compassionate. Because money is too smart, naughty and likes creative things. However, people can easily exert their creativity and persistence only in areas that they really love or have talents. It likes to create value with people.

In addition, why do I encourage charitable donations within my ability? Because water belongs to the whole world in the end, so does money. If you can, let money flow with love, it will remember you and bring you more partners when you need it. But please don't let him do it. Money loves freedom, and he doesn't like being controlled in any way.

What is the ultimate goal of the relationship between friends? I think, in the end, we all want to know ourselves and be ourselves.

Then, when you see your friends constantly know themselves and become themselves in the interaction with you, will you be happy and have a sense of accomplishment? Yes, so is money.

Therefore, we feel that making friends with money, to some extent, becomes a heart of respect and communication, and achieves each other. We respect its fluidity, explore our own possibilities and true love with it, and then create and achieve each other.

And my cognition along the way is really a very long process.

Because friends are often attracted by the same frequency, the energy frequency of money is very high, so when our frequency is low, we often pass by money. Therefore, it is important to adjust your frequency so that money will choose you as a friend. Unless you don't want to choose money as your friend.

So how to adjust your frequency, meditation awareness is a good way, for example, when I realize the fear and control of money, I have the opportunity to start transforming this fear and control.

However, in the beginning, many people need external forces to push this awareness to get rid of these restrictive money beliefs. The series of flower essence and essential oil abundance that I recently tried is such an external help.

The basic components of flower essence are basically water and brandy, but it acts on our subtle energy body. What is a subtle energy body? Subtle energy bodies are generally invisible to us, but we can feel them. For example, your two palms are close, but there is no contact. When you move each other, your hands will feel it. For another example, when someone approaches you, you feel it first and then turn around. Including some distant gaze, no physical contact, but you can feel it. These are all the functions of subtle energy. Essential oil is the essential energy of plants, which can safely adjust your physical and mental balance, because getting along with money requires a high degree of balance to make the relationship smooth. For example, if you have a bad stomach or sleep, it will definitely affect your physical strength and mood, and directly affect your relationship with money. And the relationship with money, if we adjust the balance of the whole body and mind, have a good body and mood, and have a good faith, will be improved and smooth. Everyone likes to do valuable things with healthy, balanced and happy people.

Finally, I must reiterate that you can make friends with money without any external assistance. If you want to win the lottery, you should at least buy a lottery ticket. External assistance only helps you to clear away all restrictive beliefs, so that you can see more possibilities of becoming friends with money, and at the same time, it also gives you more motivation to show your relationship with money.

Finally, I wish you all Qian Duoduo, establish your favorite relationship and achieve each other.