My neighbor's children are noisy and unreasonable. What should I do?

Xiong Haizi does exist in life, and it is difficult for you to convince him with reason. Often, as soon as you say that, he agrees, and when he turns around, it's still the same.

Generally speaking, there are several reasons for this:

First, parents are weak in love and everything is left to him. They are unwilling to beat and scold. Since childhood, they have developed the habit of being unruly and willful, giving priority to me and doing whatever they want, and no one can control it.

Second, during the rebellious period of youth, there is a fire in my heart and there is no place to vent. It makes people fidget, in order to gain the attention of others, or to challenge others' scolding and find their own inner balance.

Anyway, it's annoying. There are three ways to try:

One is to find his parents, his mother doesn't make sense, and his father doesn't make sense. Neighbors, aunts of neighborhood committees, property management companies and even police stations look everywhere they can, which creates public pressure. I don't believe they can talk to public opinion.

The second is to say loudly that accusing Xiong Haizi of all kinds of pain has made him crazy. What should I do? What should I do? Make the problem worse. I believe that parents will also seriously think and persuade their children.

Third, go directly to Xiong Haizi and start reasoning with him. Speak patiently and every day. I think the bear's children will also think about it. Uncle, everyday, is there something really wrong with him that should be corrected? After all, it is a child. I've said it several times, and I'm sure the child will correct it.

In a word, as long as we put facts and reason, the problem will be solved.

There are still many things to rely on forest law, and unreasonable and arrogant will have a market.

In particular, the issue of neighborhood relations, to put it bluntly, may be difficult to get along with if there is a conflict.

I met it once. When my child was born, there was a tenant upstairs. There is a child at home. He skates on the floor of the house. I've looked for it many times. A few times ago, my attitude was ok. I said I was sorry, son, and then I thought it was over. However, this is not the case, and so is the next day. I went to find it again. Obviously, the family is getting impatient. I talked about children again. This time, I didn't say I was embarrassed. I just looked at me and closed the door. It's been a while. I'm sorry that on the third day, the sound of the waves was still the same. I went up and knocked on the door again. This time, it was not the children who greeted me, but me directly. What's wrong with children playing at home? I also have a blank face. Later, I also looked for the property and even called the police. It's no use.

Until one day, the agent knocked on the door with his family and said that the customer wanted to buy a house upstairs, but there was no one upstairs. My family, just like the apartment upstairs, wants to show the customers the apartment. He was expressionless when he saw the client following the intermediary. I thought it was another difficult master. I replied directly, "No, and there are people who value this apartment, and then I closed the door."

A few days later, I was still an intermediary, but the customer changed. As soon as the agent told me what he wanted, the client behind me smiled and said, let's just look in the living room and not go into the bedroom. I rushed in. It's okay. Just looking around. This apartment is transparent from north to south, with good lighting and ventilation. Just looking around.

After more than a month, there was no movement upstairs.

You can't fly a white swan in a chicken coop! Raising this thing must be related to family. In my hometown, there is a saying that what a father raises, what a mother gives birth to. Children are like parents. When you meet this kind of child, you may get angry if you go to your parents. Bad neighbors at home, fidgeting. In the long run, no matter how educated people are, they will be crazy, and some people will even be forced from a lady to a bitch! In ancient times, what did Meng Mu move three times for? It's just a good growing environment! What should I do? Poor communication, no consultation, can't stand it, can't fight, and it is estimated that it is difficult to cure the police. Is there only one way to move? It is not easy for ordinary people. I have a buddy who had a similar experience. His way is to rent a house for a year and rent his house to a few foreign boys at a low price. The requirement is to knock the iron plate on the wall with a hammer every night after 12. A year later, he left like a neighbor.

People say that children are a mirror of their parents. Parents are like children. If you want to correct your own problems, you must first look at what is wrong with your children. Presumably, the quality and education of one of your neighbors are not so good! It's no use watching you communicate several times. Obviously it's not a child's problem, it's an adult's problem! Also, you have to understand that there are people in this society now, and unreasonable people abound.

Excuse me, do you live in a residential building? Maybe other neighbors are noisy, but not as brave as you. I agree with your behavior. If you are disturbed, you should say so. It's better to make trouble than to make him take it for granted!

Let me tell you a real example. I go upstairs to primary school. I don't sleep every night and play basketball. It's noisy and bang every night. I couldn't bear it that day. I went upstairs to remind them that our neighbors sympathized with us and apologized. We haven't heard anything since that night. What does this mean? Explain that parents' education determines everything! When you meet a good neighbor, you can of course negotiate to solve it. When you meet that kind of unreasonable person, just like you, you don't say anything, just call the police and say it's a nuisance, regardless of staying for a week or two. I think you are very bold. How come, this is your community? You can do whatever you want. Can you agree? A real society ruled by law, who is afraid of who!

That's really a headache [covering your face] [covering your face] [covering your face] I won't go into details. Probably just a stout girl upstairs practicing handstand, somersault, singing, running and jumping at home. Many times of communication have made us more patient, really forbearing. The worst time, on New Year's Eve, in my sleep, the crystal lamp in the living room clicked. At that time, I thought there was an earthquake. When I listened carefully, I was jumping upstairs. At that time, my mind almost collapsed and I completely forgot to be patient. First, take the video of the crystal lamp shaking and send it to the owners' group, and call them directly to their home. Then, I probably did the most serious thing in my life [covering my face] [covering my face] [covering my face] [covering my face]. It is still snowing outside in winter. I put on my down jacket, took my warm baby, lifted the small bench and went upstairs. I kept knocking at the door and didn't sleep. I can't sleep well unless they call the police. Then, their home called the police! ! ! I'm throwing caution to the wind. I only remember one sentence. He plays the piano until 2 o'clock in the morning. I should knock at 4 o'clock in the morning and ask him to play [pick his nose].

I'm glad to answer this question. What should parents do if their neighbors and children are noisy and unreasonable? I have three solutions. Let me analyze it for you.

This method is to take the initiative to go to the door and discuss the solution with the opposite parents. If the child is ill, we can understand that it will be fine after a while. If the child is a simple Xiong Haizi, we should also have a good communication with his parents. Before communicating, we should rehearse what we want to say in our hearts, or talk to our families first, to ensure that the communication is clear and well-founded, and not to make the other parents feel aggressive.

You have had good communication with them many times. If they don't correct, it's their fault. At this time, you can adopt another method.

If the previous good communication fails, further measures are needed. You're definitely not the only one being quarreled by children. You can contact other neighbors and negotiate with them together. If the opposite is still unreasonable, then contact the property and ask the property to mediate. What if the property negotiation fails? Then there is only the ultimate solution.

This is the final solution and one of the final solutions. Xiong Haizi, a neighbor, is noisy and refuses to change his teachings, and his communication is invalid. Noisy all day, leading to your mental weakness, lack of sleep, seriously affecting your life, then you can call the police and ask the police for help. The arrival of the police will definitely make them lose their way. If not, then I suggest you move or install sound insulation equipment, because such people are no longer worthy of being human, so don't care too much about animals.

The above are the three solutions I have summarized, hoping to bring you help.

Children? There is no need to care about children. Communicate slowly.

Now I am harassed, running, jumping and knocking by the noise of my family upstairs every day. Anyway, I did my best on the floor. I haven't seen him for a month. First, I understand, after all, I am a child, and I am already active. I stayed at home for more than a month during the epidemic. Let him pay attention to the influence on the downstairs anytime and anywhere, which is simply a kind of torture for him. Of course, this is a bit demanding for a child. Therefore, this is also a kind of torture, so let adults bear more. Second, I live in a building, and some noise is inevitable. High-quality parents upstairs have long reminded their children to reduce interference. Since no one is in charge, it shows that parents have no such consciousness at all. Even if they look for it, they may be restrained, but who can guarantee the effect? If they meet with poor quality, it will make things worse for you, so there is no way. Even if they look for property or the police, it's just persuasion.

Don't ask for trouble!

It is normal for children to cry. Who didn't cry as a child? But if they disturb others, how to deal with them is an adult's problem. Leadership protests, for whatever reason, should apologize for disturbing others. They are all leaders and can communicate face to face.

Treat them with Buddhism's generosity, humiliation and humility. After all, children are not sensible. It is children who often plop and jump upstairs. It is parents who are ashamed of their low quality. Usually, such unqualified parents are farmers who have just moved from rural areas to cities. They thought they still lived in the big yard in the countryside. Pull a stool at will and even play pinball. You can only be generous when you meet such a poor neighbor. The louder the noise, the more unreasonable it is. Dogs bite. People can't bite dogs. This is also ...