Immigrants move

Update 1: Reply to eric_wan04: I am married and do not live with my father.

Update 2: But not going out during the funeral is filial piety.

Can the new house be decor

Update 1: Reply to eric_wan04: I am married and do not live with my father.

Update 2: But not going out during the funeral is filial piety.

Can the new house be decorated or furnished?

Update 3: Actually, this question bothers me.

According to traditional customs, it is not allowed.

Words can change everything.

You can't go to your new home without filial piety.

I want to take off my filial piety and wait 100 days to move! Talk about red and white again! Moving is a red thing? First of all, I'm not buying a house, just renting a house.

The Housing Department handed over the building to me.

I can stir up the decoration

I can't determine the date of relocation until it is decorated. I can move at any time if I want. Besides, my father is very ill.

How can I be extravagant?

I just want to deal with my father wholeheartedly after moving, even though he is 73 years old.

But seeing him suffer from illness

I am very sad and helpless! I feel that I have spent these days in the dark.

Don't know the direction

I don't know where to go! The thought that my father will leave me soon.

I have people who are absolutely unwilling in Qian Qian.

Tears keep flowing out! Finally, thank you for answering my questions.

Thank you very much for your opinions!

First of all, please understand the influence of this taboo, because I am afraid that if the living people move away, the ancestors will not see their relatives for the last time when they return to their hometown. After you understand the reasons for the taboo, you won't be unable to move because you can't. In fact, all you have to do is tell the dead ancestors that you will move there before they come back to life. If you haven't returned to their souls, you can go to the clothes and paper shop and write down the address of the new house, so that you can assimilate with the paper products burned by your ancestors. When you return to your soul, you will know to take your ancestors to your new home to see your loved ones for the last time. But why not invite relatives and friends to drink this wine in a high-profile way? If it's a housewarming, it's a "housewarming joy", a wedding and a funeral, but if you only give it to yourself, then moving will be a problem! 2010-03-29 21:46: 26 Supplement: If you are a married woman, it is even more problematic. Ancestors will only return to the place where they lived before their death, so even if you move to the border, it doesn't matter. If you are a filial descendant, you should try your best to get back together on the night when your ancestors came back to life. 2010-03-30 00: 39:10 supplement: absence during the funeral is mourning. Can I go to the new house to see the decoration or collect the furniture? It is not good to go to other people's housing enterprises, which is your own problem. If you are still in shock and smelly, affecting the new house, you can wrap a rhubarb bow and draw a red line when you go to the new house to see the decoration or collect the furniture! 2010-04-031:38:10 supplement: I can only tell you that times are different and some traditional customs will change with time. I used to be tied to filial piety for three years, during which I couldn't shave, but is it possible to live to this day? So the custom of mourning has changed from a simple 100 day, but who is qualified to make this change? I can only tell you that the rules are dead and people are born, so I told you before, as long as you keep a low profile and are simple, and go to other people's homes during the avoidance period, the enterprise is not good (even if you are not in mourning, you don't know how to add it, and you know how to avoid it! ), change flexibly according to your own situation, who is qualified to talk to you? * * * Will you be fined for social service order? As long as you are filial, you will not feel uneasy after you understand this taboo, and moving will not affect the living or the dead. Why bother yourself and be restricted by customs? 2010-04-0316: 04: 07 supplement: I am patient when it comes to the custom of not shaving during mourning. I saw that when Uncle Alan Tam died, Alan Tam was very filial and didn't shave. To go to work, how can anyone work for three months today? The ancients wore beards, and Kan Kan talked about it, which showed that most people kept filial piety and did D but didn't? What's the impact? Therefore, people are born, customs are dead, and customs are settled to show filial piety, not to set rules to limit themselves. 2010-04-0316: 04: 20 supplement: it is understandable that you are reluctant to leave your relatives, but I have had similar incidents. I just got there a little late. Sooner or later, we will all meet again, and I will certainly hold on to them. I will write what I want to say in the letter, such as asking if I have seen Yafang and say hello to them for me! Then you can cook a cup of rice in front of the grave when you worship. You might as well refer to scare everyone!

It's really the centenary of filial piety. But now there is a funeral that day. Removing filth means (it should be red) removing filial piety. To marry a woman is to take her husband's surname and move around. Visit relatives. Eat. No Tomb-Sweeping Day can't move. I can't move with the solar terms ... when can I move to a new house? Can the decoration buyer talk? What red and white double rush? Do you agree that filial piety is the first in all walks of life ... everything is forgiven ... not outsiders ... but family members ... agree with the netizens upstairs, don't be too superstitious and tie your hands and feet in everything you do? 2010-04-0115: 02: 59 Supplement: It's commonly said that people are forgiven for laughing and mourning ... everyone ... leaves people in his works. ....

No problem at all.

Because you're married.

Surname with husband

Don't use your father's surname. and

Yes [if before moving]

Which means it hasn't happened yet.

Why not move earlier?

If your father dies of illness, you'd better move out.

Otherwise, it will take 100 days to move the house.

You are married.

But a married woman will always be your father.

black

(In case your father dies)

However, not going to the funeral during the funeral is filial piety.

Never go to a new house.

Red and white collide.

It will affect the body and fortune.

First of all, there have been clouds since ancient times. Filial piety is the first in every line. Yes (filial piety) Your father is very ill now ... Children should try their best to finish what their father doesn't want to do ... Besides, if you are happy, you can prevent three disasters ... If your father dies of illness ... You are very filial ... You can't go to other people's homes ... but it won't affect your actions ... because you are married ... in fact. ... my father is hard to die ... sadly ... if my father dies one day ... I hope he will be very painful ... comfortable ... I wish you a pleasant journey ... It is a blessing for him ... I hope he can go to the western paradise as soon as possible ... enjoy happiness without pain ... and live in a quiet land. ......